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Just venting about 50+ male toddlers in the workplace

(by 50+ she means age, not 50 actual toddlers)

I worked for a year and a half as a doc writer for an engineering group and had to change positions because taking care of several grown men was becoming very taxing to my mental health.

I had no engineering experience when I started and had to learn the field on the fly. Which, they knew and I was comfortable with because I've always been a quick learner.

These are all engineers who had 20-30 years experience in the industry who had to constantly be told that they needed to document their work, check equipment specs to ensure they had the right cowtools, be told when calibrated instrument were calibrated improperly, etc., etc. by someone who was literally learning as they went.

Cut to today, six months later, and I am STILL helping these children. I found out today that one of them had purchased about 12 piece of equipment since I left without using the correct process and now one of the instruments in my new department is going to be out of its calibration interval and we have no way to calibrate it or even buy a new one.

I asked him to help me get the proper documentation started (I tackle half, he tackles half) and while I got my half completed he spent several hours asking me questions that are literally written step by step in a procedure that I gave him on a sticky note and that I followed without issue.

This is just one example from today, but these men expected me to come up everything for them for equipment that they have used for decades.

It's exhausting and I had a little menty b on my drive home today because the weaponized incompetence is really getting to me.

They are like kids. They just pretend to not know how to do their jobs because if they stall long enough I do it for them.

>be boomer

>work in field for 20-30 years

>hanging with the boys

>someone with 0 experience comes in and tells you what to do

>they're female

>weaponized your incompetence

>cause menty b

:#marseyboomer:

new zoomer or millennial lingo just dropped

https://i.rdrama.net/images/17006616576836364.webp

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OP is 30F dating a 23M

Some choice lines from the OP and comments

We fight about something stupid (his anger gets triggered and he doesn't listen to me when I explain my side, and tells me I don't make any sense), I cry a lot, he eventually makes up with me

Oh and it's “my fault” he's in a bad mood all the time because I only have s*x with him once a week. (I lost my sexual connection to him the day he lost his temper at me when I declined s*x one night).

I've tried teaching that to my bf and even included a “safe word” during disagreements to try to get us to step back and reassess our emotions but it doesn't work

Neighbor just leave, nobody's keeping you there.

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Went to the strip club with my boyfriend. Just want to vent.

:#marseylaugh:

I guess I am just feeling a little inadequate, being surrounded by naked ladies that I would never have a chance to even coming close to looking like them.

:marseyxd#: Imagine getting mogged by a stripper.

When we got home we had really fantastic s*x and I'll admit being at the club turned me on. But there's still a strange, sad feeling deep inside. Jealousy, insecurity, inadequacy, and disdain that establishments like this exist.

:marsey#disagree:

For what it's worth, strip clubs make me feel the same way as a man. There's so much that goes into those feelings, like resentment of culture and capitalism and many other things. It's confusing to navigate

:marseysoy#lentgrin:

I too had experiences involving a relationship with a man and contact with women doing s*x work. I realized that only by brainwashing myself completely I could avoid being affected by seeing the deep inequality between men and women that is delineated on common s*x work. (And this doesn't mean I have anything against the women that do this work, I just realize it's an exploiting and fricked up job like many with added layers of misogyny).

Even calling a whore a whore needs a fricking land acknowledgment baked into it.

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The perfect :marseychefkiss: timing on the air horns :marseychinesedevil: :marseyxd:
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I hate men so much it's unreal

					
					

This is a terrible thing to write. I am 27/F. I'm a wife and mother. In my teens/early 20s I was very much a ‘pick me' girl. Like a Pearl Davis type. I cooled that down a lot over the years but I've gone to the opposite extreme. Rationally, I know this is unfair and unhealthy. Most men aren't bad. But a little voice tells me that even the ‘good ones' have some ingrained misogyny even if it's on the milder end.

I love my husband very much, he did something to hurt me very badly in the early days of our relationship. I feel this was the start of it. It wasn't cheating or anything like that. I don't wish to rehash it too much but it was related to s*x. We worked through it, went to therapy, and we're now just like any other couple. We have one daughter and we're very happy together and with our life.

It's been years since this happened, but gradually I've found myself growing a stronger dislike for men. It's not because of what my husband did but I think it triggered it. I started noticing casual misogyny in everyday life more and more to the point where it's made me angry that men…exist? I get so sad thinking that my baby girl will one day be hurt by a man, not maybe, but likely.

If anyone is wondering, I actually have a great relationship with my dad, we are very close. I'm also in therapy for unrelated reasons but this has come up a couple of times. I want to get over this disgusting hatred and have a healthier outlook. Is this worth discussing with my therapist? I would appreciate literally any insight at this point.

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It's a known issue that medical professionals and physicians often ignore women's pain and dismiss it as hysteria.

We aren't treated the same way men are, in that a man can go to the ER and has a much better chance that people listen him.

We live in a world where men get Vicodin for vasectomies and women get whatever OTC meds for childbirth, even if their is tearing or in some cases when she actually has a C-section.

So how are you gonna tell me that culturally, the gender that is taught to both ignore and deal with pain solo is some how worse at dealing with it then the gender that get legit narcotics for a simple out patient procedure? Maybe they feel less pain because of all of those prescription narcotics their given?

As a researcher, I try to be unbiased but there is a long history regarding medical bias against women and how are pain is ignore

So how am I supposed to believe studies that come from that same biased community about how we as women have both a lower tolerance to pain but also experience higher levels of it for the same things?

Maybe those doctors need to interview some tattoo artists or something, because they seem like the only group of people who understand that when you put both a man and a women under the same stimuli, one group is more likely to fall asleep and the other can't seem to sit still because they claim it hurts so much.

Maybe it's that as a women, pain is life. It starts when we're in our early teens and continues for the rest of it. Which we know pain is both subjective and exposure and range both breeds tolerance. So if it the fact that we experience more pain that make people think we are some how are less tolerant of it? Is that the logic?

Make that make sense.

I have suffered from chronic pain several times in my life, I had endometriosis that took ten years to treat because no one believed me. Maybe they just lacked the references for what nerve damage due to unchecked tissue growth does to a person?

My partner was hit by a car and it permanently fricked up his spine, causing mass nerve pain. While it's been surgically repaired, to this day, he seems to be the only guy I've ever met that gets my pain, understands it and recognizes it's severity. While other people I've been with have described kidney stones or tooth aches as ‘the worst pain imaginable', I wish that was the case for me.

Pain touches so many spaces for us in ways that men will never experience it. Seriously, thank about it. A man would never power through painful s*x, if men got pregnant, abortion would be free, if men had periods Vicodin would like be a standard treatment for cramps.

Do men just not have a frame of reference?

It just seems to be that this whole stance of women being less tolerant to pain isn't even about pain but about people acting like we are weak without proof or a reference what it actually feels like to live in a female body.

What are they trying to prove aside for finding more ways to ignore our experiences?

It's just one more dig at us, when some days that all life seems to be, more attacks and more micro aggressions without any empathy or understanding.

It's just really hard not to feel exhausted by all of it.

If this wimp was tolerating her pain, I would not know she was in pain.

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R-slurittors have their usual BS takes like:

that tarot card was a gift. you may not see it that way now, but the universe was looking out for you in the long run. i'm so sorry you're going through this, nobody deserves it. as soon as I read the part where he said “maybe it's about you are you keeping secrets??” i knew. he immediately deflected and projected it on you. also please get yourself tested asap.

Factcheck: This claim has been confirmed as correct by experts.

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/1699972677569831.webp

:marseyseethe: I'm "child-free" because I want to save the environment and

:taylorlorenzcrying: I can't imagine bringing a child into a world like this

:dixiekongsad: and I just want to drink wine and go to night clubs and eat pizza. :marseysulk:

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YouTube :marseykingharkinian: having a field :marseytradwifedaisy: day with this one.

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>I guess :marseyshrug: you guys aren't ready :marseyexcited: for that. But your kids won't like it either.

>Pubs in the UK used to put on the B Side of Cold Turkey, it's a notorious Yoko "song" (basically her screaming :marseyletsfuckinggo2: and repeating words) called "Don't Worry :marseyveryworried: Kyoko (Mommy's Only Looking :marseyflirt: For A Hand In The Snow)".....they put it on DELIBERATELY at closing time to empty :marseytemplate: the pub.......I'm not joking.

>Now I gotta :marseyparappa: listen :marseyhearnoevil: to Bill Burr's Yoko Ono rant again ahahaha

>When you give your little :marseykirin: brother :marseyobey: the unplugged controller

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Song is Memphis, Tennessee

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Billie Eilish femcelposting

					
					

https://variety.com/2023/music/features/billie-eilish-body-shamers-sexualized-barbie-oscar-buzz-1235787860

“I've never felt like a woman, to be honest with you. I've never felt desirable. I've never felt feminine. I have to convince myself that I'm, like, a pretty girl,” she says. “I identify as ‘she/her' and things like that, but I've never really felt like a girl.”

:marseywould:, if it makes her feel better

She's fired up now, launching into a good old-fashioned rant. “Nobody ever says a thing about men's bodies,” she says. “If you're muscular, cool. If you're not, cool. If you're rail thin, cool. If you have a dad bod, cool. If you're pudgy, love it! Everybody's happy with it. You know why? Because girls are nice. They don't give a frick because we see people for who they are!”

The famously non judgemental gender

:jinxthinkerhesright:

In a recent photo dump, she shared a few glimpses into her life lately, including images of her dog (a rescue pit bull named Shark)

:marseytrans: we found her boyfriend

>“Why is every pretty girl with a horrible-looking man? I'm not shaming people for their looks, but I am.” -Billie Eilish

>"You give an ugly guy a chance, he thinks he rules the world." -Billie Eilish

:#marseyshesright:

>When she, in particular, hits the wall ... bro it's gonna be a disaster. Every rock she has thrown from her glass house will come flying right back.

Manosphere terminology upmarseyd 300 times in a mainstream sub:marseyhappytears:

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Axis of shevil just dropped

Like 4 years ago but whatever

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S-s-s-sunday driver

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You think women like taller men? INCEL

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https://old.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/comments/17tbfgj/taylor_swift_running_to_kiss_travis_kelce_after/k8w2bf8?context=8

I feel bad :surejan: being cynical and/or a hater, because this is cute in isolation, but I can't believe how effectively this covered up her acceptance of Matty and everything he stands for. It was a big wake up call to fans and she has successfully buried it now. :taythink:

I think it's kind of amazing that Taylor Swift can date an openly racist man and be best friends with an openly racist plantation-wedding-having friend, and people are like, "She's just a silly girl in a silly world! Lol so cute, true love!" :marseyracist:

That's the beauty of white feminism. They (she and her fans) don't give a flying frick about poc and especially woc. So why would they care about that gross racist. I was surprised she got slightly scared and ended that relationship. :marseyitsallsotiresome:

https://old.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/comments/17tbfgj/taylor_swift_running_to_kiss_travis_kelce_after/k8x2pb2?context=8

I think it's white privilege at its finest. Taylor never has to take responsibility for her actions because people feel bad that Kanye interrupted her at an awards show when she was a teenager. It was rude and Kanye is insane af, but in the grand scheme of things that happen to women, especially woc, every day, it was a minor accident that she was able to leverage into good PR. :tayshrug:

https://old.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/comments/17tbfgj/taylor_swift_running_to_kiss_travis_kelce_after/k8x1e7s?context=8

seriously her dating a tall “unproblematic” guy who is very comfortable w gushing about her has completely erased all traces of matty in her life. and her fans will per usual act like her problematic behaviour is just a blip! :taylaugh:

https://old.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/comments/17tbfgj/taylor_swift_running_to_kiss_travis_kelce_after/k8wmsfe?context=8

She co-opted that campaign so quick! She's like a bloodhound sniffing out the next best way to divert attention from her racist-allyship. :marseyschizowall:

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