BASED

Please shower

sorry that your gf is chocking on someone else's peepee as I type this. I'd probably be moody too.

What about poly relationships that aren't sexual? I can see the appeal in wanting a bigger support system as tight knit as a relationship and if you don't value monogamy why not? Polyamory is definitely a thing throughout history. It's like when they used to just say bi people were whores who couldn't make up their mind. like can we just let people live?

That's called having friends.

terminally online people can't comprehend platonic relationships

Know many happy polyamorous people ?

yes, lots. Myself and my wife included.

reddit moment

It's funny to see these guys thinking, that anyone gives two shits about their opinion on how someone is living their life.

They portray themselves as chads, but in fact caring so much if their opinions are acknowledged is an ultimate beta move. It's obvious they crave reaction. It gives them a sense of significance.

Calls them whore, is "Voluntary" celibate, wonders why they're all alone.

only incels hate whores

Polyamorous relationships are the only ones that I'm kinda iffy on. Like I will never slut shame them but to me they only lead to jealousy and relationship problems.

in my experience, monogamy leads to way more jealousy/cheating issues. The number of relationships I've seen fall apart over those is unreal. Promising to only have s*x with, or even entertain say thoughts about only one person for your entire life really is life on hard mode.

Or just be loyal

what does that mean? Why is relying on one person for all your sexual and emotional needs a good thing?

imagine having to deal with 2 foids at the same time

Real andrew tate take right here

it also got posted on /r/memesopdidnotlike

https://old.reddit.com/r/memesopdidnotlike/comments/17d94st/idk_i_thought_it_was_funny?sort=controversial

Not hating on anyone or anything but why does everyone on Reddit seem to hate the idea of polygamy so much? Like as long as everyone likes it and all members are ok with it what's the actual problem aside from just “uhhh no every person is only morally allowed to like one other person at a time even if everyone involved is ok with it just because”

just go to /r/polyamory to see why

Your quotation is literally why

It has to be like this because…. IT JUST DOES OK!

Mostly because of the abrahamic people too

For real

God you're all fricking awful. Now I understand how the darn furries feel.

great bait

And 99% of polys aren't even remotely attractive.

It's called an open relationship. As long as all parties know and agree to it, I have no issue with it

Sounds like a guy is letting other dudes frick his wife/girlfriend. That some serious b-word energy. The majority of guys wouldn't respect another guy who did this.

Hey man, I don't need respect from other men. Most of em don't even wash their own butt. Anyways I'm off to have a ffm threesome with my wife and girlfriend, stay mad monog-cuck

Cuck coming from you is hilarious.

I don't own those women, they can do what they want with their bodies. It just so happens that they pick me more than they pick you

>they pick me more than they pick you

my favorite cope

NTA

Not my story (really!), but a friend of mine was dating a girl, apparently things were going great, but she was "waiting." Turns out only he was waiting. She had two booty call dudes. So she went out on dates with my friend, dinner, movies, concerts and stuff (he paid, always). But at the end of the night she went home and called one of her side hustles. She was shocked when he dumped her

um sweaty, that's toxic masculinity

Honestly I think YTA. It kinda sounds like she told you plainly where she is and explained her behavior and all you heard was “she fricked other people faster than me! Wtf!”

If you actually like her maybe it's worth putting the extra time, and more importantly letting go of the jealousy. It's not like she said you're never going to sleep together. She clearly likes you and is anxious about fricking it up… and ultimately you ended things because of it.

Thank you! I'm honestly really disturbed by how far I had to scroll to find this. Slut shaming projective possessive bullshit. OP is too immature to actually respect her separateness.

When people don't take my words at face value, I learn about their character.

>When people don't take my words at face value, I learn about their character.

You're making several assumptions. - Was OP working by dating her? If so…wasn't she as well? - When OP described her as having slept with someone else just before they got together, did that necessarily mean “within a few hours”? - Did she certainly sleep with dozens of other men? - What's the indication that the word logic applies to EITHER person's behavior? - Is it stupid to distinguish between the obviously different circumstances of casual s*x vs romantic s*x, and to therefore have different sexual boundaries according to which scenario it is? - Were her casual hookups actually with losers? - Why is there something wrong with two people having fun sexually with the understanding they aren't going to have a romantic future…or a future at all? (Not sure you meant that by the “prospects” comment. But I'd point out that those men were, from her POV, good prospects for s*x.) - What even does it mean to conflate this context with the obviously reasonable notion of “expecting equal treatment to their peers”? Are the men she only wanted casual s*x with the “peers” of OP, a person she wanted a more serious relationship with? If I've always had s*x on the first date, would that mean I'd owe my next date s*x on the first date? Is it possible to feel differently about whether one wants to have s*x between some men vs others during some times vs other times in some contexts vs other contexts without it being figuratively oppressive/unfair/disrespectful to/even about the men? - Why is your conclusion that OP was treated worse than the men she didn't want to date just because she tightened her sexual boundaries? Might it instead be evidence she valued OP more? - Is he “not standing for it” or is he simply unable to emotionally handle her past? Do you not see that there's no way to read what you wrote without concluding that you believe her past entitled OP to penetrating her vagina “instantly”?

On my last point, I'll be assertive rather than Socratic: I DON'T GIVE AND MEN DON'T GET, WE BOTH GIVE AND GET.

A lot of people here hope and pray they never meet someone like you while they are trying to find the one.

Samesies

>A lot of people here hope and pray they never meet someone like you while they are trying to find the one.

I'm going to go against the grain and say YTA.

Everything in this sounds like this is your issue, not hers. You even say at one point "I was feeling extremely jealous." Lets get a couple things straight.

1. Everyone gets to decide what they do with there own s*x life. If she wants to have s*x with these people but wait when it comes to you, that's her choice. She's not an butthole for choosing to wait with you.

2. Everyone has a past. You admit yourself that you have a past as well, that is similar to hers on some ways. You get to feel about her past how ever you feel, but that is on you not her.

Honestly, I don't think this is because she made you wait. I think its because you can't handle her past. Maybe you had some image of what her past was because she made you wait, but the past is the problem. Not the waiting.

Breaking up is the right thing to do if you can't handle her past, because you are unlikely to get over that. But realize its your problem and not hers.

I think you're a fool for throwing the relationship away over this. She was treating you differently because your relationship was different and special. You're a fool.

I used to take my casual hookups on expensive vacations, shower them with jewelry and nice clothes and accessories…but then I met the woman I wanted to be my wife. She's special, so I take her to Arby's once a month so she won't view me as a wallet.

apples and oranges...she's trying to be a better person for him...but obviously that too complicated for everyone here to understand

Some women truly dont understand that not giving out to a partner you actually see a future with because ur afraid u might seem like a slut is not something the guy will appreciate, speeeecially if she has a history of giving it up early, lol.

This happened to me too, this one girl who has more bodies than she should also did this towards me when we were about to hook up. She told me the same shit u was told and I was dumbfounded. I take you out ø, listen to ur problems and treat you good, and I cant have s*x with you ?

But the 100 onenight stands you let hit without even knowing their last name gets all of you without effort. Yeah nah, I broke it off instantly after that night and I told her why.

If shes a virgin or truly only has 1-3 bodies I would totally understand it, but acting like that after letting every guy in town hit does not work.

"I take you out ø, listen to ur problems and treat you good, and I cant have s*x with you"



Aaaah that's where most of these NTAs are coming from.

Listen, and listen carefully:

S*X IS NOT A REWARD FOR GOOD BEHAVIOR, THAT WOMEN "GIVE OUT."



For y'all in the back:



S*X.

IS NOT.

A REWARD.

GIVEN OUT.

FOR GOOD BEHAVIOR.



It is a mutual exchange between two (or more) people in which ALL parties are willing and enthusiastic. It is not something that is dispensed like Pez candy by any of the parties; it is a fricking mutual interaction that only happens if everyone involved is in the mood and wants to be involved.

This idea of s*x as something that one gender 'gives out' for the other gender is immature, shallow, misogynistic/misanthropic, dehumanizing, hetero-centric, and frankly an insult to actual GOOD s*x and sexual partners everywhere.

If you're treating s*x and the other person as if they're a transaction you're owed for certain words or behavior, or something the person dispenses, you are not having good s*x and you're denying yourself (I can't imagine anyone with this attitude truly GAF about the other party's satisfaction outside of obligation) and the other party actual good s*x that is more satisfying than mutual masturbation with extra steps.

P.S. If you want to have s*x dispensed out to you then visit a s*x worker; they are good at what they do and you'll have a more honest interaction than playing games and trying to get women to "give you" s*x.

snappy quote worthy, both of them

Probably seeing other dudes while you were together

did she see other dudes?

yes - 93 votes

no - 7 votes

Why dont scrotes understand that adult womxn cannot consent?. I'm surprised his sister(male) is giving him a second chance.

A girl informed my son that she's pregnant and that there's a 1 in 3 chance he could be the father

I'm sitting here thinking “frick!”. He told me that he used a condom and that there's no chance he could be the father. But we all know that condoms aren't 100% effective. My son is only 15 and having a baby would ruin his education and college prospects. Honestly I'm pissed at this whole situation. He's going to have to take a DNA test along with 2 other boys in this situation.

would somebody PLEASE arrest Colleen??? https://t.co/ehoJnkDOQS

— Granite Mtn. Movie Club (@gran1te_mtn) October 19, 2023

7 out of 8 men masturbate to the suffering of women and children. 34% of American husbands rape their wives. 1 out of 4 divorces involves male domestic abuse. Yet, these jokers think "misandry" is an issue. FFS https://t.co/dWcwVCOIuN

— Penelope Something⚡️ (@Birdinacage17) October 18, 2023

Hope y'all sisters know the Pain Gain involved with being a woman and understanding what it means to be such.. wooo I'm outta breath. This dialation has been terrible. It's like someone kicked me in the uterus and pained me all to my heart. I feel with my sisters going through the same. Love y'all, comments appreciated below.

The bottom line is this: men will never understand how we feel, that's why we've brought people who understand that which are men who identify as men and refuse to give u

!coomers

this is the original twox thread: https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16hll0e/im_unsure_if_i_should_tell_my_boyfriend_this?sort=controversial

even that thread is not that supportive of her

I don't see anything wrong. She didn't cheat on him. And she told him the truth. He has a right to not want to date her. Seems like they both behaved reasonably.

I mean she acted irresponsibly if her attention was to keep that guy. She couldn't close the shop down for 2 months while scouting a potential life partner? Seriously?

Personally that wouldn't bother me.

Technically if they weren't exclusive, she wasn't cheating. Was it implied at any point?

To me if neither party declared themselves to be exclusive I don't really see what the issue is here. Non-exclusivity to me means you're able to meet up with other people for a date, and yes, to frick your friend with benefits. I would presume the other person is doing the same, and if they aren't that's their prerogative. Once you're exclusive, if not once the relationship starts to get more serious, people tend to cut off the fwb and stop casually seeing other people.

You don't have to declare normality

And how is normality being defined? Seems like casual dating is now practically married levels of exclusivity.

>I wanted to build slowly with this man

that doesn't really sound like casual dating

I really don't get this "exclusive" nonsense? is it a particularly American thing or am I just too old?

I would never tell someone I'm going exclusive with them because I would always be exclusive with them. If I'm dating someone then I'm dating just that one person, I'm not at a sampling smorgasbord, trying everything all at once. that's just being slutty, whatever your gender is...

From the point of asking someone out and going on a first date to the point where we agree that we're not a thing, I would automatically and only be with that one person... is that not reasonable?

Slut shaming bs aside, that's all fine and dandy. Your experience does not correlate with a vast majority of adults. You're in an exclusive relationship with someone the moment you meet them for the first time? If someone said that to me at one point a first date I would leave immediately. Creep behavior

>You're in an exclusive relationship with someone the moment you meet them for the first time

Why are we assuming poster is a she?

Name of the subreddit (twoX)

POLL:

Was she cheating

YES - 275 votes

NO - 41 votes

Millie Bobby Brown reveals to Glamour that she credits her feminist awakening to a visit to a psychic, who informed her that she was, in fact, a feminist. pic.twitter.com/4YXXnQseul

— Pop Base (@PopBase) October 16, 2023

The top choices of lies that men tell women that infuriates women are:

1. Once he has a child, he'll be forced to grow up.

2. "The relationship will work if you just try harder!" from Long TDS sufferer /u/kittykowalski

3. "Women don't get along."

4. “I want a submissive gf/wife” he says when he can't even lead his own darn life || this one is from fauxmoi poster /u/ditovontease who has accumulated half a million karma in a few years by posting to subs like /r/30plusskincare and /r/AdvancedAstrology

5. “You'll want children one day” by /u/rosegoldfern who just posted a thread 30 minutes ago seething about age gaps, in between posts about Monster High dolls and children's television shows.

6. An actually valid one at #6 with “You don't like this sexual act because you haven't tried it with me yet." although this is invariably correct when it's said.

7. Whenever they try to tell me I'll end up living alone with only my cats for company like that's a bad thing 😂 B-word, that's what I aspire for my life || Basic literacy indicates that this is a true statement, as she literally says it is, so????

8. “I don't know how to use a washing machine you have to show me” which seems to be a constant refrain in TwoX threads to the point where I'm actually starting to believe that there are scrotes who say this? !fellas is this true?

9. Man with blue balls: “You have to help, it hurts!” || Also not a lie? Do the women misunderstand their own thread or am I out of touch and missing some slang here or

10. This is actually nowhere near as interesting or funny as I thought it would be and I realized that very quickly. But I need dramashekels for vaccines so I'd appreciate it a lot if you pretended this was a really good thread and upmarseyd it anyway please.

Life is just so expensive, like even the basic things that shouldn't be classed as luxurious (eg. Having a car, renting/getting a mortgage) that I don't know how a single person would manage to have these things and not have to share the costs with someone unless they're on an insanely high salary. I just feel at such a loss with life right now

First story

Do y'all have a weird, off-putting thing that gives you dopamine

>In a conversation with my therapist, I joked about the unhinged thing I was doing to cope with my existence. I have a blown glass snake statue that contains some of the ashes of my brother. We usually put a Santa hat on him around Christmas, but at the pet store the other day I saw that they were selling small animal costumes!

>So me I immediately buy a lobster costume, go home, and dress up my snake brother in the costume. My husband looks up and sees it and I'm like "brothers name is a lobster" like it's common sense and I'm not losing my mind.

>And I send a picture to my mom and she's like "this seems like a good topic for your therapist" 💀

>Jokes on her, because my therapist said that as far as ways I can be forced cramming dopamine into my system, this is probably one of the safer, if not slightly unhinged routes and it has her full approval lmfao. She's tasked me with crocheting more outfits for him since it's my current craft hyperfixation.

Second story

Wtf even is this?

https://old.reddit.com/r/adhdwomen/comments/17882rf/i_got_tired_of_going_through_the_child_proof_pill

Third story:

Suck at veggies & nutrition in general? Life Hack Alert!

>Maybe I'm late to the party but I saw these for the first time at my grocery store & it was like a light bulb went off. They taste great too! I particularly suck at lunch which results in being so hungry that dinner is gross, so then I binge on junk all evening. Sure its just apple sauce with carrots but it's got more nutrients than 1/2 a bag or doritos & a few handfuls of shredded cheese!

Fourth and Final Story (Extreme WordsX3 Post)

I've started asking men with ADHD at what age they were diagnosed..

...and the answers have made me EXTREMELY bitter.

All of them casually said between the ages of 5-10. The age of 7 was the most common answer from male friends, acquaintances, coworkers, etc. The oldest age I received was 12 years old.

However, with women? The most common ages I've heard from those I've personally talked to are mid-20's to 30's. If you google it, most women are diagnosed with ADHD in their late 30's to early 40's.

The youngest age I've ever heard of a woman being diagnosed with ADHD is 15 years old, and that would be me. However, I still believe I was diagnosed incredibly late.

My mom told me she sought psychiatric care for me when I was as young as 3-5 years old. She even told the worker she suspected I had ADHD. Kudos to my mom for recognizing what took the psychiatric system more than a decade to determine. But, unsurprisingly, they didn't take her seriously.

I began receiving regular psychiatric care at the age of 7. I'm bitter as heck, because I was the textbook definition of a child with ADHD. Yet, it took them 8 years to even consider the diagnosis and test me for it. Funnily enough, they first diagnosed me with ADD. After 2 weeks, they changed their minds, I don't know why. How typical isn't it for women to receive an ADD diagnosis instead of ADHD?

During that time, I was misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder. I was on countless of medications, antidepressants, antipsychotics, mood stabilizers, the list goes on. When I look back at my teenage years, all I remember is misary. I was deeply unhappy, and I truly believed that life was just not meant for someone like me.

I asked my psychologist for the medical records from the time I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, and couldn't help but laugh at the notes.

"Patient is showing symptoms of hypomania: can't sit still, talks excessively, jumps from topic to topic, and has trouble staying focused during the appointment." Hmm, I wonder what a more reasonable explanation for that might be?

Although I was diagnosed at 15, I don't feel I was given enough information about ADHD. I didn't understand ADHD affected so many aspects of my life. I believed having ADHD simply meant I struggled to focus in school, and that there must be something else that's "wrong" with me.

I began taking Concerta at 21. At the same time, I started researching ADHD. Learning everything about the condition, combined with the medication, changed my life.

Now, I'm in a good place. I can manage my ADHD, I'm happy, and I no longer feel lost. Yet, the bitterness remains. I'm resentful that the system let me down. I can't help but wonder what my life would've looked like if I had been a young boy attending those countless psychologist appointments, instead of a young girl.

Every time I see a young woman struggling as I did, I'm filled with rage. Born in 2000, I should've been part of the generation where the system finally took women and girls with neuropsychiatric disorders seriously. But I continue to see the same pattern, and it breaks my fricking heart.

"The reason for the gender gap in ADHD is due to a lack of research on women and girls with ADHD." THEN START THE DARN RESEARCH! How many women and girls with ADHD need to fail in school, struggle to hold jobs, and find daily life unbearable before the issue is taken seriously?

I remember scrolling through the comments on a Reddit post where a man argued that women are more privileged than men. One reason he cited was that men are significantly more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD than women.

I wanted to scream.

Neglect by the system is not a privilege. Dismissal is not a privilege. Underdiagnosis due to inadequate research on women and ADHD IS NOT A PRIVILEGE.

Men aren't more likely to have ADHD, men are more likely to be diagnosed with it.

I hate that I get so angry when I meet men with ADHD, because I haven't met a single one who has the amount of knowledge of the diagnosis that women with ADHD have. Because women NEED to be their own advocates. We didn't have the privilege of being taken seriously. We've had to become our own experts, doing the work the psychiatric care should have.

I hope to see a day when girls and women with ADHD are treated equitably. If I have a daughter with ADHD, I wish I will be able to trust the system without fearing they'll dismiss her needs as they wouldn't do if she was my son.

For change to happen, we need to talk about it. Not just among us, but our male ADHD allies need to speak up aswell. This issue should spark as much outrage as ADHD medication shortages, yet it rarely sees discussion outside of female ADHD forums.

Lastly, I'm grateful for all of you, compassionate, strong, loving, and incredible women and girls with ADHD. Watching you thrive after having to fight so hard for you to get to that place really warms my heart.

Seeing you all support each other gives me hope. I'm so happy that women and girls with ADHD have a space where they can be seen, heard, and understood, after being dismissed and ignored for so long. Thank you, all of you.

EDIT: Guys, please stop giving examples of men in your life who have been mistreated by the system and follow that up with "If that makes you feel better". Because no, that doesn't make me feel better.

Pointing out that ADHD is frequently misdiagnosed and underdiagnosed in women compared to men is not about comparing individual experiences. It's about addressing a systemic issue. I don't take pleasure in anyone being misdiagnosed or mistreated, and it's genuinely hurtful that so many of you think I would.

jfc the fact that she can shit out this much of text makes me think she's not an adhd tard.

Anyway !besties !pings !pinknames and !schizos I implore all of you to look around that sub. It has a lot of hidden jewels.

R-slurred foid @FrozenChosen has finally blocked me after my brutal assault of words.

Yes, this happened 6 days ago but I've been busy IRL doing shit and also on-line laughing at Aussies on the referendum.

Let's do a deep dive on what I actually said to her that made her tap out.

Offense 1: Calling Out Her Non-Drama

@FrozenChosen made a post here titled "Read this post to instantly feel better about your life." It was a drama-free post but fairly amusing and entertaining, it's just a loser (even by Reddit standards) telling everyone what a loser he is. Good times.

But in this exchange, the demented hole seems to think that it is actually dramatic:

Actually feel bad for the foid, med school is a b-word especially in the US and it sounds like she was pushed through her childhood by her parents or something which probably set her up to fail from the start. She could have saved lives and helped society and now she is a drain on it. Truly sad.

I honest bet she's like bipolar or smth, something really hard to cope with. I do feel bad for her. Still dramatic tho

dramatic, there's literally no drama here

"Dramatic, there's literally no drama here." That's a bridge too far my friends.

Strike 1.

Offense 2: Calling Out Her Stupidity

In a post about why men (males) are invading women's (male) spaces, she opines that she's not like other girls and that men just need a place to get away from women, like men's-only country clubs. Except, that's not the argument about why men's-only country clubs shouldn't exist. I'd call it a simplification of the facts, but it's more like an r-sluration of the facts. Let's look at the exchange.

Omg it was a big scandal at this super fancy golf club where I grew up. They were forced to admit women/let women play. I'm a feminist/equalist but darn just let the men escape their wives for an afternoon.

Like usual, you don't fully understand the situation because you have 4 holes with your brain being the bonus hole. The argument about the country clubs specifically is that many business meetings and deals are made in exclusionary clubs and that this put women at a disadvantage in the business world. This may or may not change your opinion (it doesn't for me) but it's a lot more complicated than "hurr durr getting away from nagging front holes"

Strike 2.

And that's it my friends. I'm out with 2 strikes, the overly-sensitive clitoris with a bonus hole for a brain blocked me for my insanely brutal bants.

getting some action from the wifey tonight 😍