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I am not encouraging shitty behaviour but it seems like being nice and friendly towards males is constantly getting me in uncomfortable places and I don't understand why it's happening.I'm currently anxious and feeling really fricking fed up. I work with so many people. Male and female. I treat them all the same. Some I sit and drink tea with in the staff room and natter with. Some I will stop in the corridor and make chit chat like you'd do a auntie in asda. I am never ever flirtatious or suggestive. JUST NICE.
I've recently been messed about by a man I worked with who doesn't work there now. No problem. That was mutual and its done with. But I've made the silly mistake of talking to a man at work over a cuppa about the mistakes I've made with some humour thrown in. Other people were there. We all chatted like adults. He's been with his girlfriend 15 years. I know of her. So all is fine. He's always seemed normal. I asked him for some advice this week about a work issue as I was abit upset with the way something had been handled. Since then he's been messaging me daily. He's apparently thinking of me. He keeps asking if I have ten mins after work to see him. Today he's asked if I'm free at all. It's my day off and no I'm not! He's being creepily weird and I know he's testing the waters and I absolutely hate how shit it feels. He has started writing statuses on fb this week after 3 years of not posting. He's told me he's looked through my pictures and he would marry me if he was single.
I can't cope with this shit. I also gave my number to a local football coach in June. Married! I had to take my son out of coaching after 3 weeks because he was chasing me for s*x.
I'm just starting to really hate men. I dont know how to handle this silly peepee at work now either. What a twat to think it was at all appropriate. I have really ignored messages for hours and hours. If I don't reply the next day he pops up again. I try push it straight Into polite work chat again and he's pushing it. I don't want to feel uncomfortable. Please advise me. Am I to blame.
It seems like she has a habit of getting into deep conversations, and probably telling stories that contain s*x (I guess that's what 'mistakes I've made' refers to) without realising that that's more than enough to attract the interest of the moid. The refusal to take any direct action is also a repeating theme.
Just tell him 'stop messaging me'
and if he doesn't report him at work
I understand i would rather not tell work because when I first started I had to report a man 30 years older than me for messaging me. It's the 3rd time this has happened and I hate it because I'm just not looking for male attention. I'm single with kids. I don't want anyone unless it's natural and I have feelings. I no feelings whatsoever for this latest one and I can't believe how he's behaving. I dont know what I've done to make him even think beyond acquaintance/work chatting there's anything.
lol 3rd in a row and still doesn't know how easy it is to accidentally activate the few neurons that a scrote has
Just tell him 'stop messaging me' and if he doesn't report him at work
Well said. Pull on your big girl pants and just say not interested. Cannot understand why this needs to be a big deal.
When you tell a woman to stop being so indirect
Op tries to find reasons to avoid the massively difficult task of saying 'no' to someone
I don't want to involve managers. He's in a 15 year commitment and living with her. So he's crossing a line anyway. But why an earth do people already in relationships behave like this.
I hate the awkwardness. He's been nice and now he's crossed the line and made me feel so awkward. I dont know how to reply
Yep he sent me a peepee pic that night! His wife was then stood next to me at football.
The scrote, fuelled by the erotic situation of not having been blocked yet takes the relationship to the next level of random peepee pic out of fricking nowhere
He messaged me on whatsapp. My kids play with his kids too. So he made normal conversation about the kids etc and arranging another day out at the park do they can play. Then gradually flirted a little. Then photos. Then oversharing. I wanted my son to enjoy football but after 3 weeks I realised it was not appropriate
Or maybe not so out of nowhere. How much do you wanna bet she was quietly enjoying the attention and light flirting until it turned into no-more-plausible-deniability peepee pics
OP I understand what you are saying. Please ignore the 'helpful' people on here who are seeking to blame you for a man's shitty behaviour๐ I was friendly with a guy a work who had a DS the same age as mine. It turned out both boys participated in the same local sporting activity each weekend. We exchanged numbers as he said it would be nice to meet up with the boys after the activity and go to a cafe for lunch. In the ensuing months he began messaging me about unrelated things, commenting on my appearance and asking what I was up to on a Friday night. I blocked him. What was depressing was the number of female friends who rolled their eyes and told me I was incredibly naive to exchange numbers, of course he was only interested in one thing etc. This was a married man with who seemed perfectly pleasant but apparently I was in the wrong for not realising you cannot possibly just be friendly with a guy.
How many women go through life without realising how r-slurredly single minded men are is kind of
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I don't know if anyone was familiar with this story but it just popped up in my feed and it's Fing hysterical lol! Haven't seen sneed like this in a while.
First link:
https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=786287523062137
1. "why didn't her wife impregnate her... oh wait..." "I don't get it..."
2. "all those celeb friends and one wasn't willing to skeet in her?"
3. "and y'all wonder why they chose a white donor... y'all are hateful as F"
4. "why is Judy missing a nail..."
Second link:
https://instagram.com/balleralert/p/Crv-6niS3BC/
1. "why not ask some male strags to procreate with you to keep stragdom going?"
2. No idea what this girl is saying but it seems funny
3. "disease-ridden whyte men want to pollute the world with abomination mixed babies to wipe out the indigenous black pipo!"
Third link:
The Kweenz sneed
- usernaw : india wins
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Weโre just dumb
— Elon Musk (@elonmusk) December 26, 2024
Frick you Elon pic.twitter.com/CSrbu97W7G
โ Ray (@raymo_g) December 26, 2024
Some mor epic seethe I found
https://x.com/jlippincott_/status/187206224221013635
"cyber force india"
Your understanding of the situation is upside-down and backwards.
โ Elon Musk (@elonmusk) December 25, 2024
OF COURSE my companies and I would prefer to hire Americans and we DO, as that is MUCH easier than going through the incredibly painful and slow work visa process.
HOWEVER, there is a dire shortage of extremelyโฆ
- epic fuccin trolllmao stfu white boi
โ kache (@yacineMTB) December 25, 2024
what have you built? what have you invented? what has your father built? and his father before that? we will be lucky to even get one child out of you. do better
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The reason Iโm in America along with so many critical people who built SpaceX, Tesla and hundreds of other companies that made America strong is because of H1B.
— Elon Musk (@elonmusk) December 28, 2024
Take a big step back and FUCK YOURSELF in the face. I will go to war on this issue the likes of which you cannotโฆ
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Whenever I get pinged by !downmarseyrs I always upmarsey every comment in the thread.
Epic Troll
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Import badge integrity question
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why am I here?
quick, interpret this:
the old year's gone
will the new one be any better?
I have my hopes, but then
optimism is in short supply.
still.
there is something.
goodnight.
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This is disgusting @stillgray. Iโm beginning to believe the rumors that you are blackmailed bc you got caught looking at some illegal stuff. https://t.co/TGWql91qHk
— Candace Owens (@RealCandaceO) December 30, 2024
@Newvann rightoids infighting
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Looks like a windows computer. the person who owns it is connected to someone who sent child pron to minors and is a abuser. it would be a shame if people were to join
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Context
Some nasty witch made a post about her trans pikachu or something and posted it on /r/pokemon. They didn't like it as confirmed by unddit:
- removed comments: 132/322 (41.0%) deleted comments: 21/322 (6.5%)
Anyway, as I'm the chad type (and they are the crying soys), I've noticed that like a majority of trans positive comments are downmarseyed to oblivion due to bots and/or brigaded by right-wing extremists and the reactions are too funny:
/r/Gamingcirclejerk - G*mer couldnt stand seeing anpikachu and a trans flag in the same pic [sic jfc]
Anyway, the thread got posted to our friends over at /r/gamingcirlejerk by the gorgeous Oktavia - whose beauty only reflects their orthographic skills - and it's a crysis-just-got-released-in-2007 situation. Most comment chains got jannied clean but undelete has them saved:
https://undelete.pullpush.io/r/Gamingcirclejerk/comments/1hmdiu5/_/m3tgpsh/#comment-info
https://undelete.pullpush.io/r/Gamingcirclejerk/comments/1hmdiu5/_/m3v0u8o/#comment-info
https://undelete.pullpush.io/r/Gamingcirclejerk/comments/1hmdiu5/_/m3u95sw/#comment-info
https://undelete.pullpush.io/r/Gamingcirclejerk/comments/1hmdiu5/_/m3tq5oz/#comment-info
https://undelete.pullpush.io/r/Gamingcirclejerk/comments/1hmdiu5/_/m3tgwoj/#comment-info
Anyway, transphobes got btfo'd by lore accurate pikachu:
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> "We aren't lazy! We are hard workers! Don't replace us with someone else!"
— Collin Rugg (@CollinRugg) December 29, 2024
> "Working 80 hours a week is way too much!"
This week has proved that some people just want handouts and an unfair advantage, also known as DEI.
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https://www.theguardian.com/world/2017/oct/16/malta-car-bomb-kills-panama-papers-journ*list
mmt of
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"JD... where are we going?"
— Frasier Payne (@MeinGottNiles) December 29, 2024
"I just... there's something I have to do..."
"What's left to do? You already sent them all back."
"...all of them... but one..." pic.twitter.com/euc1RUU44c
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https://discussion.fedoraproject.org/t/gui-instructions-installing-wireguard-on-silverblue/74713
liamdev: I need graphical user interace (GUI) instructions for installing Wireguard on Silverblue - Fedora 34. I'm visiting family at the moment and evidently they have Avast - which I do not want to use and I don't want the VPN that they have set up with the router to interfere with mine.
I've read the 1981 internet protocol that was published by DoD. I'm so immeasurably frustrated that something like an encrypted tunnel from end point to end point is such a complicated issue.
The articles on Fedora Magazine are not sufficient for a beginner and only show command line instructions and the only video on YouTube that's worth watching is chaotic with a guy typing a millions commands plus he's using Ubuntu anyways. GUI instrucitons please.
computersavvy: If they are already using a vpn why add another layer. Since you are just visiting you can temporarily disable your own vpn, use the one they already have configured at router level and go with it.
liamdev: With all due respect, I was looking for GUI instructions on how to set up the Wireguard VPN on Fedora Silverblue, not advice on what I should be doing with a presumption that I had one set up before.
liamdev: I haven't come across anyone that has sucessfully set up a VPN on a YouTube tutorial or anything else via GUI. VPN's should be simple, point and click free solutions to protect your identity and information from being transmitted widely over the internet. There's literally no point in moving forward with any future releases of any distribution if a GUI VPN hasn't been developed.
Regarding a server - i don't have a personal VPN server - that's what WireGuard is supposed to be ? WireGuard is supposed to be both the VPN Server and the VPN Client for someone that has neither right now.
computersavvy: I think you are misinterpreting what a vpn is & does.
It securely connects you via a tunnel from one point to another, the remote being a vpn server and may be free, paid, or company owned.
liamdev: Thanks for the info. My use case is this - I want to be able to install a VPN so that anything I search for on the internet is encrypted. I want an encrypted tunnel between my computer and the internet browser.
The reality is, there are (from what I see) 1.5 million man pages that have 10,000 functions. In other words, there's 150 ways to do the same thing. The system is so broken that I'm shocked the DoD has even let it carry on the way that it has.
From what I understand, Gnome Box VM's don't even hide your physical IP address or MAC address or anything really? So if someone wanted to use the hacking cowtools that are in Linux - well there wouldn't be much stopping them from getting literally all of my passwords and informationโฆ
So if someone wanted to use the hacking cowtools that are in Linux - well there wouldn't be much stopping them from getting literally all of my passwords and informationโฆ
augenauf: interesting, I would be curious to learn how to do that, just for research purposes. could you share any insights?
liamdev: Gothca - thanks, Sure thing, I'll map them out. Here's how you:
Clear the Logs & History on Linux Systems to Delete All Traces You Were There [Tutorial]
Watch Hackers Craft Malicious Office Macros (ft. Kilian from SecurityFWD)
I mean just follow that channel in general. Then look at:
You get the point.
So, regarding the VPN and just general freedom to have privacy hahaโฆ I'll check out the blog post again. I don't understand how it's so easy to find out how to track and airplane from a video tutorial but something as basic as a VPN seems to have so many different components to the workload that could break at any moment.
liamdev: With all due respect, it's none of your business why I don't just turn it off at the Router level. I genuinely mean that as well - I don't mean to disrespect you, but posting in a public forum why I don't do that shouldn't even be a consideration as a response.
I'm gathering that no one has developed a GUI to use this Wireguard VPN. I clicked through the link that you sent, and the link that was in there and the link in that one too. Thanks for the effort but it didn't provide an actual GUI answer.
I'm gathering that no one has developed a GUI to use this Wireguard VPN.
augenauf: It's integrated in Network Manager in Gnome, consider searching the internet.
liamdev: okay so there's no way to easily install the WireGuard VPN via a GUI. The strategy here is to loop people in w/ Lenovo, offer them "free" everything that's not really free, offer tons of documentation to the point where people either give up or - the optimal outcome - they hire a company like Red Hat - that's using non-profits as a tax write off - or someone else that's anonymous but the risk in the anonymous folks is that they could be hackers ha.
If there was a "CEO" of Fedora, who would that be? Who is in charge of operations? Who is in charge with the Lenovo relationship? Who is in charge with the financial side is probably the most important in this question. I don't want to reach out to an anonymous profile and this VPN is arguably one of the most critical elements of the research I'm doing. If this is seriously the end result - the messages on these threads and recommendations - then there is a massive problem that needs to be addressed.
augenauf: So, you tried to set up the wireguard between your Fedora Workstation and your EC2 instance?
Where are you stuck? What are the error messages? Any logs?
liamdev: No, I'm hopeful you can help me find some way to connect directly with the Fedora leadership team. What is the best route? I believe whoever would be equivalent to the CFO would be the most appropriate.
augenauf: So, I am going to close the topic if you are not interested in technical support solving your problem. You're wasting your time and our time by discussing useless stuff. Had you ever posted a link to the guide you are trying to follow, the commands you had executed, the conf files you used, and error messages or log files that were generated, we could have long solved your problem. Instead โฆ
As for the contact to Fedora Council and its Chair, I am sure you find that in Fedora Docs or by means of a search engine.
Do you actually call Jeff Bezos if your EC2 instance doesn't install an update?
I can only second @ilikelinux comment; get a professional IT consultant. He or she will setup wordpress and a store within a couple of days, including a wireguard connection for you to mess up the installation.
https://www.mcgorray.com/obituaries/LIAM-J-BIRT?obId=27828780
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