https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15dhbwm/frustrated_with_sex_with_a_small_partner/?sort=controversial

He's probably around 4" would be my guess, possibly slightly under. His peepee is constantly slipping out. I feel like if I move at all it will slip out. So I can't really participate in s*x.

S*x feels pointless. I'm at a point where I kind of want to tell him I don't really want to have s*x with him regularly but I know that would be a huge blow to him.

Edit 2: because my weight has been mentioned: I'm obese, he's overweight.

Entire thread is full of obese women talking about how they like to get their fat rolls fricked only by average or larger peepees. Peepeelets should all rope now.

OP refers to HIV positive guy as "Durian" LMAO

Serious question for well-meaning white people. When you show up at a get-together like this, do you notice there are zero Black people, or nah?

If so, do you say or do anything about it? To who? Please be honest. This is a safe space (unless you say something dumb or racist).☺️ pic.twitter.com/y7jI2Yyk9S

— Jay “Affirmative Action Hack” Perkins (@JohnathanPerk) July 10, 2023

He's very proud of himself for this little observation, including the cute twink ☺️ a second time

You're always one weird white person away from a lynching popping up

As a man who has dated quite extensively, I can confidently say that a younger (legal) women is preferable to older women for the simple fact that they have less baggage and “battle scars” from previous relationships. When with an older women, you are competing with her previous exes (who she still remembers and has in the back of her mind) and also have to deal with traumas from previous relationships. A younger woman on the other hand is a blank slate, where previous relationships have no chance of impacting or ruining your current one

UPDATE: very interesting comments that are definitely having me think about my beliefs more deeply. Please folks realize that my opinion is an OPINION and not fact, meaning that it’s not something “set in stone”. It’s certainly possible that I’m the one bringing the baggage based on some past (negative) experiences as well, ironically enough! Also interesting to see how combative and judgmental people can be towards others who don’t share same viewpoints as their own which is plain sad.

Honestly I'm the exact opposite. With younger women you deal with

• not knowing how to communicate
• immaturity
• not being able to fully care for themselves
• not being fully developed
• unresolved trauma

Having a developed woman to date is much more preferable generally imo.

this guys says Outdoor domestic cats should be sterilized.

Oh look, an older man who likes to date teenagers as opposed to fully formed adult women with a fully developed frontal cortex.

How original.

fightfor25.com

You gonna piss off a lot of single mothers of three. And a lot of people raising kids for single moms of three.

It takes 2 to tango. How did she end up a single mom? Could it be because the man used no protection? Could it be because the man isn't around for his children?

His body, his choice.

Younger women are better because they’re hotter. I’m 23 and after sleeping with a couple of women over 30 I decided that 18-25 is considered the human prime for a reason

Physical human prime is between 30 and 40 lmao

True and here’s 10 other copes you can tell yourself

It's literally a fact, nobody is saying 18-25 the human prime besides creeps and people who peaked in college

stop it. get some help for your copium addiction

"I don't want to date women who may have dated someone better than me in the past" says a lot more about you than younger/older women in general.

now that's what i call projection

Sounds like insecurity on your end

This gives “I have nothing better to offer and I don’t want you to notice” or “I want to be able to easily manipulate you and since you have no previous experience you won’t see through my BS quickly or at all”

Sounds like SOMEbody's hit the wall and feeling threatened by young pretty things!

The wall doesn’t exist. That is something bitter men tell themselves to make women feel bad for aging. Most older women have more options than older men.

>The wall doesn’t exist.

Hahahahahahah what kinda incel dog whistle is this opinion 😂😂😂.

Also, I don’t even have to guess, I know for a fact, OP is a conservative

fricking wingcucks

It's a Lemmy instance I associate lemmy with tankies but idk i haven't been browsing lemmy in a long time lol

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First im hearing of the #rexxit hashtag

startrek.website contains several associated star trek themed reddits, like /r/risa, some kind of trek shitpost meme subreddit

https://startrek.website/c/risa

thats all i know rn may the force be with u and stuff

Two weeks...

You sound vaccinated.

Trump is a master strategist who wrote the art of the deal.

He is dozens of moves ahead of the globohomos and has high energy. He will turn everything around and win in the end.

He will destroy DeGroomer and imprison him for being a p-do.

He will hunt down all the globohomo pedos like Shillary and Brandon and imprison all of them with their fellow p-do pick DeGroomer.

God is with Trump and Satan is with the globohomo pedocrats. It's the same fight between good and evil, everywhere, just like it says in the Bible. God wins in the end.

New snappy quote?

"You sound vaccinated"

Yeah yeah and you were going to lock her up top. Enough of this gaslighting.

We just have to remember that God is with Trump and Satan is with the globohomo pedocrats.

It's the same fight between good and evil, everywhere, just like it says in the Bible.

God wins in the end.

When Trump pulls a reversal move on the globohomos and exposes their corruption and pedophilia, it will be proved that there was fraud inside the corrupt machines in 2020 and the courts can reinstate Trump as a remedy.

Then, Trump will hunt down all the globohomo pedos like Shillary and Brandon and imprison all of them with their fellow p-do pick DeGroomer.

The best is yet to come!

I didn't downvote you, but this doesn't really fit with the biblical view that the anti christ establishes a one world government and makes everyone worship the beast

Globohomo wins on earth

Another win for the Globohomo. We cant help but win bby!

I don't mean to be a doomer, but what different actions will he take compared to the first term? Like specifics? Because the first term was "Lock her up!".

I don’t think Trump realized how bad it actually was, he took too many suggestions for staff and got snakes

Wrong.

Trump literally said after he got elected. “I don’t want to hurt the Clintons, I really don’t... She went through a lot and suffered greatly in many different ways.... It’s just not something that I feel very strongly about.”"

This time won't be any different.

That was before everything. Before he even knew about a deep state.

Trump knows more than you think. He is a vessel for God

God is with Trump and Satan is with the globohomo pedocrats. It's the same fight between good and evil, everywhere, just like it says in the Bible. God wins in the end.

A 'vessel for God'? You sound r-slurred, where the heck did you get that BS from? He's a great guy, but he's not even religious. He is way too smart for that.

That's the 3rd time that guy has popped up and said God is with Trump and that Biden is literally Satan. Either an actual schizo or the most obvious bait I've ever seen. Either way, he's very entertaining!

Heck have a lot more support to go after these people and he’ll have a precedent set for jailing former presidents

Support form who? He wouldn't even fire his own FBI director who actively workied against him, publicly. Fauci and Burke both mocked him on TV and not a single pink slip went out. The guy is not good at choosing people and he's even worse at taking advice from people around him, especially his own family. He absolutely the best for the job right now, but lets not work ourselves thinking that he's going to rain hellfire on everyone when he gets in. I would truly like to be wrong.

I've been thinking on the fachi thing for quite awhile.. Those sick bastards setup the hospitals as death camps with the "protocol" of remdisvr + ventilators. They murdered Trump's friends (that he talked about) with their protocols. How is he supposed to fight that? He did bring in Dr. Scot Atlas but that guy didn't have a chance against these entrenched fuggin tyrants that likely had this plandemic built and paid for even before Trump was in office. It was an emergency last resort button.. By the time they unleashed this plandemic, which they planed with event 201 (look it up, who, murderer-gates, johns-hopkins, intel leaders, media, etc. part of plan), it was already too late. Hindsite is 20/20.. so but now they can't use that same trick because people are on to them. Trump will make an impact. Can he do everything he says, likely not, but what should he campaign on being eeyore? No. Trump is the fighter that we need. Plus America needs to fight more. We're seeing it with the parents at the school boards, and the plandemic stuff is coming unraveled.. but we need to accelerate! No democrap govs elected in the midterm either! People need to stay on top of this stuff! And Trump needs to get RFK Jr. in his cabinet.. That guy has been waiting his whole life to exact revenge on the deepstate scumbags that killed his uncle and dad.

@Aevann rightoid drama. luv me plz.

…but on mobile you can’t see whatever silly message they put there. But the apps are mobile apps. And used by < 0.15% of mobile Reddit users (0.06% of total users). So to the average user it just looks like the mods are being fаgs for no reason instead of just for a very stupid reason.

Great plan powerjannies!

Over 250K likes on this TikTok where a Korean woman generalizes all Korean men as sexist, rapists, racists and homophobes. This level of throwing your race under the bus for clout is just insane. pic.twitter.com/zfXo2xp3Ft

— DYJIMGI (@dyjimgi) June 5, 2023

Context

A woman made a tiktok listing her grievances with Korean moids and how they shouldn’t be idolized and real life isn't like Kpop. Some of the issues with the scrotes include:

*Most korean men have paid and slept with a prostitutes (50.7%)

• Bad in bed

• Don't support feminism

• Don't understand consent

• They're racist

• They're homophobic

Surely the ricecels will take the criticism in stride

Looks mid from beginning to end of clip

OP: Not even mid. Just straight uggo

So why we speaking on her looks if you actually wanted to talk about what she was talking about 💀 incel

go suck a peepee if you hate women that much

Loser insulting a woman’s looks like you don’t get on dating apps and swipe yes on every single woman out of desperation

Just say you want a White man like most Asian women do. We ain’t gonna jump you.

Asian men who genuinely believe this should just start fricking white men at this point bc y’all have a hard on for them

seeing how i heard stories of how korean men treat black women foreigners this does NOT surprise me. my friend who is black girl who went to korea said she experienced more fetishization from korean men then anywhere else. it’s crazy

The conversation then steers into a discussion about how w*men hate sexy Indian dudes:

good on her for only throwing them under the bus if we were to talk about indan mn i would be driving the bus 💪🏾

wait till i tell you i'd throw desi men under the bus at the drop of a hat

I'd throw desi men under the bus for half a samosa

U bet I'd talk shit abt Indian men any chance i get

That's because there's absolutely nothing even remotely good to say about them

yeah ima believe a woman speaking on her own men before whoever tf dyjimgi is. 🫰🏽

idk why they're all acting outraged and surprised, for me it's not the first time I hear of similar experiences with korean men. of course generalizing is usually not good but at this point I thought what the girl claims in the video was common knowledge lol

Asian men work hard and get paid well and usually are family orientated, never understood the hatred asian women have for their men

It’s just because they’re not white lol

It's hilarious cause just the other day a tweet went viral talking about how asian men - black women are the most successful interracial coupling. So are asian men really that bad or do you just fiend for white peepee?

Is this this an American psy op?

She's just self hating

Source

the obvious AAVE affect is so cringe too. like stop

Why do bobas do this? It's one of their most annoying traits. "Y'all don't even get me started . . . ASIAN MAN BAD" Fricking suburbanites trying to sound hard

Maybe they are racist

Did you know that jannying has always been done by some slob tethered to an actual computer?? Like they're not out and about and just occasionally dealing with a push notification for free???? They're sat at home hunched over a computer doing this all on desktop??????????????????

The jannie rioting continues.

Although

What is actually wrong with Reddit devs

The movie has a $250mil budget and was marketed to heck and back so it's estimated that it needs at least $625mil to break even (probably even more due to marketing). Problem? Asia hates it's guts, Europe is unimpressed, the movie underperforms among whites in America (the main movie going demographic) and the newest Spider-Man cartoon will come out next week. It currently does well in America but there's a good chance that it won't have legs since apparently only blacks are impressed with the black mermaid. And the domestic audience needs to make up for the international one too

Thats worse than Antman or better

Worse

ouch

Dumbo opened better internationally than this

Some context on how the movie is faring right now

Also, the /r/boxoffice moderators aren't up yet which means the chuds get to have their fun:

The road to 1B WW is as far as the distance between her eyes

Such a weird comment to make get out of here

I state nothing but the truth.

This sub was meant to be about predicting and analyzing box office data, not insulting the appearance of others. Go outside

Wow appearance of the main actor/actress is one of the factors to determine the success of one movies. I want to see a princess movies, not a gangsta one

Holy shit, yikes. You guys are really showing your true colors on discussions about this movie. Nothing about a black women gives off “gangsta”, except the fact that she’s black

Sorry, i take that back. Not a gangsta but a hiphop/ rnb one then

Lol I love how you’re using hip hop/rnb as an attempt at being racist but that’s one of black people’s greatest impacts and accomplishments on culture

Once again, libs prove to be more racist than conservatives

Also I'll be honest, I made this post exclusively for this exchange

Wait for a black Rapunzel with dreadlocks

that wouldn't happen at all, because black women don't like their hair touched by strangers

It will happen, i bet. What i anticipate more is a white MLK, the reaction from some people would be huge, lol

As I've been told many, many times, the race of an actor doesn't matter so long as the acting is good, and you're a racist if you complain about it. There's no reason a white MLK should be a problem with these people.

So true, then the same people will go riot if a white MLK happens

Yeah before they needlessly make Rapunzel a Latinx girl to shove diversity down our throats.

Snow white would do fine as long as it had Dwarves and cast a white actor as Snow White... oh, wait.

Yep, Peter Dinkalge made an angry comment about the film having dwarfs, then some days later Disney announced it would change them in the film. Then they changed the name of the film to simply "Snow White". Other actors with dwarfism were pissed at Dinklage tho lol

A multi-billion corp bent down to suck an Imp’s peepee. Thats a new low, even for Disney LOL

That is in fact one way to view the situation. Seems like a well adjusted take. Have a good day

and cast a non-white actress as Snow White....

So, 'Skin as average as Joe?"

Lol a a movies about dwarves without dwarves. Id rather see the porn parody, at least snowwhite is white in that movies

Well, Snow White isn't even white lol.

The entire comment section is a battleground right now

And I love that even the title “Snow White” is considered controversial because…she isn’t white. So then you have the replacement theory advocates pointing out that even Snow White can’t be white, which only validates their bigoted point of view. If people are gonna b-word about a black fish, can you imagine what the response will be when the marketing for that starts? It sounds like Disney’s Bud Light waiting to happen and they should probably just dump it on Disney+ to lessen the damage.

The Bud Light protest really spooked them.

The entire thing is still going and the mods either didn't notice yet or don't care, if you want to check it out

You can't do it. And this shit is $35.

"But Cathedral, this was recommended to you, you're clearly neurodivergent!"

yes, I play paradox games. How could you tell?

Anyway, here's a screenshot of the "gameplay"

Here's a definitely comprehensible review

this shit is like reading Cuneiform. What does any of it mean? Why does this exist?

Edit: EVE Online is cheating

https://old.reddit.com/r/Grimdank/comments/13egs5f/real_world_politics_obsessed_people/jjpuvhm/?sort=controversial

"How is using representation of gear from WW1 any political statement?" ANSWER: Naziiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

TL;DR five years ago a woman got so drunk that she was refused entry to a Between the Buried and Me gig. Instead of going home she decided to go to a nearby bar "to sober up" . BTBAM's rhythm guitarist Dustie Waring turned up at the same bar after the gig (yes she was still there drinking, BTBAM shows aren't exactly short either...). She spent the evening with him, and now five years later has decided that This Was Bad.

She uploaded a conversation they had on Instagram the morning after, it includes him telling her "You grabbed my peepee" and "You were kissing me in front of everyone", and she uses phrases like "haha" and "Oh wow!".

So of course he's getting cancelled now. He's off the next BTBAM tour and the band are preparing a longer statement in the meantime. No police charges have been filed, so there's no way for Dustie to defend himself.

This is a shame because I really like the band, they've had the same lineup for nearly 20 years, and I think that his signature guitar is beautiful.

/r/betweentheburiedandme is pretty split. Someone else tries to pile in on his cancellation:

OP I’m so sorry this happened. I’ve had my own weird experience with him thankfully just on Instagram but it was enough to leave me upset because btbam has been my favorite since I was a young teen; I’ve gone to countless shows at this point and still continued to go because I truly love their music and all the other guys in the band.

She was so badly affected by this Instragram interaction that she still goes to see their gigs and hangs out with him after shows.

There are several new accounts with random usernames piling in with more "allegations":

Im not surprised, he actively follows numerous girls and even followed me when I was barely legal. His following list alone gave me off putting vibes. Im so sorry that this happened to you.

Several spell his name "Dusty" instead of "Dustie" so you know they're OG fans...

There are a lot of comments from people expressing doubt. 52 upvotes:

I'm about to get canceled for this, but I'm right there with ya. Objectively, there's no hard evidence for the claim... Only a text thread (that could be faked) that acknowledges an encounter that in that context seemed harmless. I'm not saying it didn't happen, I'm just saying that objectively, there's no hard proof.

And let's finish with a good old age of consent post:

If you run the timeline, it's a 33 year old plying a 21 year old fan

Exactly. The power dynamics and predatory thing is huge

"power dynamics" of being a metal rhythm guitarist lol

The Fatrick thread is 1800 pages long so of course there is no way of summarizing or even reading all of it, but it's fun to check in on from time to time because Pat is such a fricking lunatic with a hilarious way of talking where he constantly calls everyone "child". Apparently he's been harassing Mark Pellegrino on Twitter for reasons unknown, and Pellegrino looked him up and found the KF thread, which he has been reading through in apparent horror.

Due to the Farms' constant outages lately, I am gonna repost the images and content of the post by KF's Mr Moonface in question here because it's very funny:

--

Featured on May 3, 2023 at 3:22 AM: Patrick Tomlinson has managed to get actor Mark Pellegrino to directly insult him. Somehow Patrick still has the bigger ego.

https://twitter.com/stealthygeek/status/1653620422552764416

Mark Pellegrino is now a Patposter. The Hollywood saga begins...

Edit: Mark is reading this thread, and piggy responds:

https://twitter.com/stealthygeek/status/1653631270176292874

MARK PELLEGRINO HAS CHILDED PIGGY:

https://twitter.com/MarkRPellegrino/status/1653632592779051008

For anyone wondering about how their fight started, here's the context:

https://twitter.com/MarkRPellegrino/status/1653452319080722433

Pat believes that you should be allowed to physically assault anyone that you suspect to be a Nazi. Mark seemed to have a problem with this.

For every person here complaining about how turning off the PushShift feeds negatively impacts their mod tools and flows, etc

I am just here to say

That I am FREE AT LAST.

A significantly large amount of harassment on Reddit was enabled by PushShift being an anonymous proxy for teams of harassers.

With PushShift being turned off effective today, so is their ability to stalk and dogpile specific topics and locate victims to harass.

Moderation tools can be built. But severing the last lifeline outside of sockpuppet throwaway accounts that these people have had, years after being kicked off reddit, is a welcome step.

And additionally, I no longer have to be the one-stop “hatred is happening in such and such” maven. Now it’s truly up to the vast user base of reddit to report hatred and harassment.

Interesting because bardy never requested removal like a lot of jannies do.

!bardfinn

Null posted this thread about some kiwicel named Secret Watcher

https://kiwifarms.net/members/secret-watcher.30104/

Tldr he only reacts, does not post or comment

Apparently he uses "negrates," idk what that is exactly but sounds like their version of downsorens

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/debate-user-secret-watcher-on-the-ethics-of-using-post-reactions-without-posting-himself.163913/

Shit, @snailslime got her sticker privileges taken away for a heck of a lot less, and she up and left. Yeah, take @secret watcher's away too, force him to actually contribute to the forum he lives on for once

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/debate-user-secret-watcher-on-the-ethics-of-using-post-reactions-without-posting-himself.163913/page-4#post-16171682

If @secret watcher was spamming positive stickers, the same ones crying about negative stickers, would cite their reaction score as undeniable proof of being correct. These are the same individuals who look at the back of a movie case, see "BEST MOVIE EVER - Sundance", or some plastered-on shill review, and believe it.

Stickers do not determine if you are right or wrong. They determine if you are a strag or a chad, by how you handle them.

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/debate-user-secret-watcher-on-the-ethics-of-using-post-reactions-without-posting-himself.163913/page-6#post-16173985

Kiwicels don't understand lurking:

It's a certainty that he has a main account for posting and a gimmick account for lulz.

[Null:] He uses a domestic IP and has no IP hits. If he's using two accounts, he is using a VPN for only one of them (which I believe is unlikely). Maybe he just doesn't want to post.

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/debate-user-secret-watcher-on-the-ethics-of-using-post-reactions-without-posting-himself.163913/page-7#post-16177598

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/debate-user-secret-watcher-on-the-ethics-of-using-post-reactions-without-posting-himself.163913/page-8#post-16177995

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/debate-user-secret-watcher-on-the-ethics-of-using-post-reactions-without-posting-himself.163913/page-11#post-16178944

Hahahaha.

We all know that these report-happy r-slurs would hypocritically spam secret watcher with negrates if he ever posted anything, and that's why their asses are so chapped about stickers from someone who doesn't post. They are mad because they cannot engage in the same behavior that they accuse him of. He has denied them that sweet release of giving him a top hat and vindictively reporting his post to the jannies.

So they are left with no option but to throw a tantrum about stickers. Like a toddler. Or a low-functioning neurodivergent.

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/debate-user-secret-watcher-on-the-ethics-of-using-post-reactions-without-posting-himself.163913/page-12#post-16179719

Abusing stickers is just one schizo way of misusing the forums

[Null:] It is literally not a misuse at all wtf. His one post was to ask in tts why he couldn't rate posts anymore, which was a setting change so brand new accounts could not be made to do proxy sticker wars (no really it happened constantly). I configured his account to bypass the requirements because he had been around so long.

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/debate-user-secret-watcher-on-the-ethics-of-using-post-reactions-without-posting-himself.163913/page-16#post-16188579

@secret watcher might unironically be the most powerful user on this website and all this sperging that's popped up both in this thread and elsewhere on the site over the ethics of sticker privileges merely serves as further testament to his power.

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/debate-user-secret-watcher-on-the-ethics-of-using-post-reactions-without-posting-himself.163913/page-18#post-16194134

@secret watcher is one of the best users here, if he seriously make people this angry over stickers he absolutely deserves to stay.

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/debate-user-secret-watcher-on-the-ethics-of-using-post-reactions-without-posting-himself.163913/page-19

Apparently the local idio equivalent banned him in the past

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/debate-user-secret-watcher-on-the-ethics-of-using-post-reactions-without-posting-himself.163913/page-3

@getogeto @AraAra !soren !lurkers !schizomaxxxers @Null @PublicPolicyEnjoyer !effortposters discuss