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Looks like somebody needs Cow Tools

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tag yourself
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:marppy: Drama Report: 2024-04-27 :marseyminer:

Top Drama

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๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Husband was just prescribed Vicodin following a vasectomy, while I .../r/mildlyinfuriating (8M)65%5562
๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Everyone thinks we need more taxes but no one is asking if the gove.../r/FluentInFinance (258K)60%1795
๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Do You Find Me Attractive? Why/Why Not?/r/LooksmaxingAdvice (67K)63%1919
๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜The real porn thing in this game, it's the physics of her hair/r/gaming (41M)69%1454
๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜I threatened to leave AITA? /r/AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC (35K)60%1042
๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Study finds feminists don't hate men/r/PurplePillDebate (129K)44%731
๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Blood for the blood god in silver and neon green :D/r/CriticalDrinker (6K)56%770
๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Would this be too painful for a first timer? Also do you think this.../r/tattooadvice (193K)59%768
๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Can Protestors stop talking about the Intifada or chanting river to.../r/ucla (76K)61%437
๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜The Real DFL/r/altmpls (5K)52%320

Relative Drama (takes into account the size of the subreddit)

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๐Ÿค“๐Ÿค“๐Ÿค“๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ”˜Blood for the blood god in silver and neon green :D/r/CriticalDrinker (6K)56%770
๐Ÿค“๐Ÿค“๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜The Real DFL/r/altmpls (5K)52%320
๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜I threatened to leave AITA? /r/AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC (35K)60%1042
๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Do You Find Me Attractive? Why/Why Not?/r/LooksmaxingAdvice (67K)63%1919
๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Protest in support of Palestinians on campus/r/wsu (15K)47%145
๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Anyone else dreading tourist season? /r/CapeCod (23K)54%231
๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Dear protestorsโ€ฆ/r/columbia (35K)59%304
๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Prices & Release Date Announced!/r/GrayZoneWarfare (10K)54%69
๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Study finds feminists don't hate men/r/PurplePillDebate (129K)44%731
๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜Just here to say WOW, FSD is incredible. I am floored at how $99 a .../r/TSLA (25K)48%130

:marppy: autodrama: returning jobs to dramautists. :marseycapitalistmanlet: Ping HeyMoon if there are any problems or you have a suggestion :marseyjamming:

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I am using a throwaway since I am moderator on several of the subs that have to do with my hobby of cosplay, anime and hentai.

This is one of those ones where I see my self as being 80% right but I want to be fair because honestly I depend on my parents for a lot of stuff (rent, tuition, food, car insurance).

I am huge into cosplay and gaming. It has been my dream to go to a big convention in my cosplay. A friend suggested we got to LVL UP since it has everything we like. The badges aren't super expensive but we decided we wanted to super splurge on accomodations so maybe we could host parties in our room. So the total cost of my trip including everything (airfare, room, estimate for food, badge) is about $3500. I had $2000 that I was supposed to pay towards my credit card but I decided to get the rest I would get a pay day loan this was back in march so the trip is all paid for.

I wanted to keep it a secret from my parents but I accidentally missed my first payment to the pay day loan and for some god knows how reason the people at the pay day loan place did a search for my name since I as ducking their calls until I could borrow some money from a friend and they called my parents home number looking for me (I can't even imagine this is legal!?!)

So here's the deal, I'm no like so dense that I don't understand I messed up. I mean I know that Iย NEEDย to pay my debts. But here's the deal, I mean I'm only in college once and I only get to do things like LVLUP while I'm young. I also think this was a very normal mistake and my parents should give me enough room to make mistakes and learn from them.

But my parents are freaking the heck out. My dad has basically said this is it, that after the credit card debt and my grades and now the pay day loan and missing a payment I have shown a level of irresponsibility that he can't trust me any more and I either move home to go to community college and work for his company or he cuts me off for good. As harsh as that was my mom was even worse and she literally screamed at me like cussing names and told me that they didn't raise me like this and I acting like a "spoiled Instagram butthole."

edit: just for clarification I'm 20f.

Like I said I KNOW I messed up, but am I really an butthole?

!chuds !nonchuds :marseyrofl:

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Kala baman supremacy

:marseyjewofthesubcontinent:

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@911roofer get fricked by my 10 inch Somali peepee you Zionist obsessed white trash hamplanet. :marseytroll:

!r-slurs !BIPOCs

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DAE hate it when you have a rough week and you're also on your period?

As a trans man, I am getting kind of sick of whacky clown-like trans women making shit up like this and discrediting the whole concept of being transgender in the eyes of most people.

No, it is not your "time of the month". You do not have a womb, hence no womb-lining to shed.

Trans men have periods. Cis women have periods. Trans women do not.

A bit of rationality goes a long way towards winning acceptance.

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https://old.reddit.com/r/programming/comments/1cdqd3m/lessons_learned_after_3_years_of_fulltime_rust/?sort=controversial

https://old.reddit.com/r/rust/comments/1cdqdsi/lessons_learned_after_3_years_of_fulltime_rust/?sort=controversial


Article is too long :marseylongpost: to copy & paste, so here's the link https://loglog.games/blog/leaving-rust-gamedev/.

!codecels

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:marseyinshallah:

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:soyegirl:

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:surejan:

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:zoomersoy:

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The CHVD genes will overpower the feminine lib genes in your progeny

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Just genuinely insane femcels lol

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Stupidest land lord

Imagine not kicking her out to ride the rent multiple times :marseydisagree:

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:marseyxd: :marseyemojirofl:

He says poo

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landlords can't stop winning
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Blacks mad about white basketball girl again.

I don't not care about foid ball, only the drama surrounding in.

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Steak dinner
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:marseychonkerfoid: :marseycope:
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I asked this question in another sub yesterday but got mostly male responses, and would like to hear a woman's perspective on the issue before I actually do something about it. Also, my bf is a 27M.

21F here. I've been in a great relationship with my boyfriend who I met about 7 months ago. Everything is going well, and we really like each other, and have even discussed moving in together, but the one hiccup I have is his porn consumption.

He watches porn about twice a day, and I consider this to be a lot. He keeps saying that this is normal for guys with a high s*x drive, but I really don't like the idea of this. I recently went through his phone (I absolutely insisted) and saw that he was using OnlyFans and was subscribed to many models, and also saw hundreds of ratemytwat ratings, all of which really put me off. Also, on instgram, he's following many dozens of models, and he likes all their pics, and this is kind of embarassing as well since my friends see this and have asked me about it on more than one occassion.

The thing is I really like him, and outside of this, we have a really great relationship and an amazing s*x life. I really can't use the 'if you're horny come be with me' arguement, becuase we genuinely do have an incredible s*x life.

I wonder if maybe he's just the kind of guy who needs that extra stimulation, and chooses to get it from porn. If that's the case, I'd so much rather have him watch porn than sleep around on me.

I don't really know what to do, because everything about our relationship is great, except just this one thing, and I want to know if maybe I'm overreacting.

I know that this sub is already full of a lot of porn-related questions, but I think my situation happens to be a bit more unique than others. Would love a different perspective on this situation. Thanks!

TL;DR: My boyfriend watches a lot of porn, but we still have a great relationship and s*x life, and I'm wondering whether this is something I need to be worried about.

I'm not convinced OP is being genuine.

I've read post history, as I do when things like this come up in the sub. Four months ago they had apparently been alone for a decade. Five months ago they talked about how they own a company with their boyfriend.

Feel like clarifying anything, OP?

:#marseydetective:

This troll again if I ever see this ratemytwat garbage again, such loser behaviour

There's so many ratemytwat marketing/ad/spam posts in so many subs lately.

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Friends I know this is a hot issue culturally right now and many here have very strong feelings about how normalised pornography is, but OP's account seems pretty suspect to the degree that I doubt this story is legitimate or truly asking for advice.

She claims here to be in a great relationship with a boyfriend she met 7 months ago, but in a comment from 4 months ago she claims

Having been alone for the better part of a decade, I am here to tell everyone that for most, loneliness is worse than cancer. [..] I happen to be in a position similar to OP, in that I am extremely lonely and have also turned to an AI for company.

And in a comment 1 month before that one, she claims to own a company with her boyfriend? Scratch that actually, that comment was literally stolen word for word from a post on Quora. In fact several of the comments posted by /u/Dazzling_Chemical865 are literally stolen word for word from Quora and other websites, and some of the others just sound like they were written by AI? Especially the professional sounding advice on the accounting and CS career questions subreddits?

I'm sorry to say but I think this is some kind of karma farming operation, human or bot (or both), especially considering they did not reply to anything said in the other subreddit they posted this thread in.

Others are naturally uncomfortable condemning a perfectly healthy and ethical OnlyFans habit

:marsey#fans:

I'm way less bothered by the twice-a-day habit than I would be by the Instagram models and Onlyfans. I think the line between porn and cheating is whether or not the particular activity is interactive. I would also be bothered that his behavior on Instagram is public.

His defense seems to be that it's 'normal for guys with high s*x drive'. I would suggest questioning him on where he got this idea from. To be fair, I think you should also lay out where your discomfort is coming from, and be clear if this is about actual negative impacts on you (ie, your friends see your boyfriend's behavior and think he's being disrespectful to you) or expectations of what is normal. (ie twice a day is kind of a lot.)

'Normal' is kind of irrelevant here. It doesn't matter what other people do, it matters what works for your relationship.

Are you seriously encouraging the OP to โ€œunpackโ€ her discomfort about a guy who has hundreds of interactions on a site called ratemytwat?

Some of your mothers on here did not stress to you how important it is as women to uphold your standard, and it's showing.

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He's paying s*x workers for the porn he's consuming, that's the more ethical porn you can consume.

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!antibharatiya !bharatiya

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https://twitter.com/shejwal_kiran/status/1783537403648700524

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https://twitter.com/unknowner4545/status/1783546415467360421

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https://twitter.com/KeshavOnWeb/status/1783684229454581849

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https://twitter.com/lkjhgfdsa5791/status/1783940787849576680

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https://twitter.com/Utkala_Kalinga/status/1783667782217064931

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Even most of the Indians aren't buying it

https://twitter.com/darshilvshah/status/1783541889641402846

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https://twitter.com/vedantmanore/status/1783713488306905129

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https://twitter.com/Ayush90588474/status/1783676861744079176

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https://twitter.com/kanth_mayur/status/1783727231354687842

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https://twitter.com/Rohan25855496/status/1783843931064537474

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