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Woman dates king of the coomers, complains to TwoX. Foids dig into post history and accuse OP of secretly shilling for a site called "ratemytwat"

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I asked this question in another sub yesterday but got mostly male responses, and would like to hear a woman's perspective on the issue before I actually do something about it. Also, my bf is a 27M.

21F here. I've been in a great relationship with my boyfriend who I met about 7 months ago. Everything is going well, and we really like each other, and have even discussed moving in together, but the one hiccup I have is his porn consumption.

He watches porn about twice a day, and I consider this to be a lot. He keeps saying that this is normal for guys with a high s*x drive, but I really don't like the idea of this. I recently went through his phone (I absolutely insisted) and saw that he was using OnlyFans and was subscribed to many models, and also saw hundreds of ratemytwat ratings, all of which really put me off. Also, on instgram, he's following many dozens of models, and he likes all their pics, and this is kind of embarassing as well since my friends see this and have asked me about it on more than one occassion.

The thing is I really like him, and outside of this, we have a really great relationship and an amazing s*x life. I really can't use the 'if you're horny come be with me' arguement, becuase we genuinely do have an incredible s*x life.

I wonder if maybe he's just the kind of guy who needs that extra stimulation, and chooses to get it from porn. If that's the case, I'd so much rather have him watch porn than sleep around on me.

I don't really know what to do, because everything about our relationship is great, except just this one thing, and I want to know if maybe I'm overreacting.

I know that this sub is already full of a lot of porn-related questions, but I think my situation happens to be a bit more unique than others. Would love a different perspective on this situation. Thanks!

TL;DR: My boyfriend watches a lot of porn, but we still have a great relationship and s*x life, and I'm wondering whether this is something I need to be worried about.

I'm not convinced OP is being genuine.

I've read post history, as I do when things like this come up in the sub. Four months ago they had apparently been alone for a decade. Five months ago they talked about how they own a company with their boyfriend.

Feel like clarifying anything, OP?

:#marseydetective:

This troll again if I ever see this ratemytwat garbage again, such loser behaviour

There's so many ratemytwat marketing/ad/spam posts in so many subs lately.

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Friends I know this is a hot issue culturally right now and many here have very strong feelings about how normalised pornography is, but OP's account seems pretty suspect to the degree that I doubt this story is legitimate or truly asking for advice.

She claims here to be in a great relationship with a boyfriend she met 7 months ago, but in a comment from 4 months ago she claims

Having been alone for the better part of a decade, I am here to tell everyone that for most, loneliness is worse than cancer. [..] I happen to be in a position similar to OP, in that I am extremely lonely and have also turned to an AI for company.

And in a comment 1 month before that one, she claims to own a company with her boyfriend? Scratch that actually, that comment was literally stolen word for word from a post on Quora. In fact several of the comments posted by /u/Dazzling_Chemical865 are literally stolen word for word from Quora and other websites, and some of the others just sound like they were written by AI? Especially the professional sounding advice on the accounting and CS career questions subreddits?

I'm sorry to say but I think this is some kind of karma farming operation, human or bot (or both), especially considering they did not reply to anything said in the other subreddit they posted this thread in.

Others are naturally uncomfortable condemning a perfectly healthy and ethical OnlyFans habit

:marsey#fans:

I'm way less bothered by the twice-a-day habit than I would be by the Instagram models and Onlyfans. I think the line between porn and cheating is whether or not the particular activity is interactive. I would also be bothered that his behavior on Instagram is public.

His defense seems to be that it's 'normal for guys with high s*x drive'. I would suggest questioning him on where he got this idea from. To be fair, I think you should also lay out where your discomfort is coming from, and be clear if this is about actual negative impacts on you (ie, your friends see your boyfriend's behavior and think he's being disrespectful to you) or expectations of what is normal. (ie twice a day is kind of a lot.)