I just left my imaginary friend and I feel horrible

Oh, you got it all on video, bro? Good, they can make sure who is no longer welcome in the shop!

Hopefully the owners aren’t morons by getting mad at these two, like so many terrible owners/managers would be

Im gon quit this minimum wage jorb by kicking this guys ass!

It’s called “loud quitting”

“Loud quitting”! Made me snort my coffee from my nose! You glorious bastard!

If the weirdos want it to be ok to be attracted to and have intercourse with minors, then nobody should frown on anybody who whips the shit out of one of your kids for behaving like a degerate like this idiot did.

Kids...the new adults, only more worthless and stupid.

wtf is this psycho talking about. absolutely out of nowhere brings up p-do shit

https://old.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/13z99as/comment/jmqyfcz/

Got my hands on this thicc butt ribeye. People that pay for things are stupid

https://old.reddit.com/r/Overwatch/comments/13yfvab/clearing_some_confusion_about_lgbtq_laws_in/ https://old.reddit.com/r/Overwatch/comments/13yamby/blizzard_should_unlock_the_pride_event_in_central/

Context: https://rdrama.net/post/175184/wholesome-italian-football-fans-encounter-prominent

Jose Mourinho is toxic, and his abuse of Anthony Taylor has major consequences. The scenes from Budapest airport in the aftermath of Mourinho berating Taylor were unacceptable. Mourinho is a playground bully and the only way to stop him and this happening again is by introducing severe sanctions.

The scenes at the airport were appalling and have reverberated around the world, and they're a direct consequence of Mourinho's actions, who empowered those people to act in that way. Uefa simply have to act and they need to put better procedures in place to ensure the safety of officials. Football players have their chartered flights after games but officials will be on normal, scheduled flights - added security for referees is crucial here.

I was surprised by the lack of security Taylor had in that underground car park, and that is on Uefa. There would have been the match delegate and an observer but that is not enough. What we saw was unprecedented, vitriolic and deeply unsettling.

Both Roma and Sevilla were guilty of indiscipline and gamesmanship on Wednesday night. For what happened after with Mourinho and the unacceptable abuse he directed at Taylor, I would ban Roma from European competition for between one and two seasons. Mourinho should also receive a 10-match ban.

People will say that is excessive but he deserves it and you need a stronger deterrent because managers like Mourinho, and others, believe they can get away with anything. It should be a total ban from the stadium, rather than a touchline ban. A touchline ban in Europe would still allow a manager to sit in the directors’ box with a match official. Mourinho should be banished completely.

This behaviour has a trickle down effect, right through to the grassroots of the game. It cascades down, from the very top. Anders Frisk was an elite level referee, like Taylor, and he retired after receiving death threats having taken charge of a game involving Mourinho's Chelsea. He has shown a pattern of behaviour throughout his career to officials.

Taylor is a highly respected referee with a high threshold for tolerance - he used to work in the prison system - and I thought he had a fine game on Wednesday. Indeed, many of the decisions he made were in Mourinho's favour. We won't get to a stage where referees refuse to take charge of games involving Mourinho but they - and everyone in the game - needs to be less tolerant of his behaviour.

!football

I still don't get why they put black on there unless they are implying all blacks are on the homo spectrum.

I'm not homophobic but this shit is weird tbh.

People meme about "homofascism" but I think it's an accurate description of modern ameriKKKan dogma.

It's the merger of state and corporate power exploiting the iconography of the gay community failed Austrian painter style not for the purposes of helping gays but to establish obedience and consolidate power.

Under this dogma it's insufficient to be tolerant and respectful of gays, one must be an active participant in shit that not even actual gays give a shit about and might think is weird.

Tall Chads don’t complain

Have you ever noticed how tall men don’t really complain about their height struggles and they do face struggles believe it or not. Naturally, I always find myself with tall men. And boy oh boy, they don’t fit on airplanes and they hit them doorframes. But not one complaint. They just brave it.

I know a guy who’s 200cm and one day he just disappeared. Others and I freaked out because there’s a shooting near where he lives right on that day. He was having some serious surgery because he was too tall. He didn’t get his height reduced. Of course not. Astaghfirullah. Just had some ribs surgery to better support his own height. Not a single complaint throughout the whole thing. He went back immediately to eating borscht and petting cats. A brave man!

How come these short men won’t stop complaining about shit? Maybe that’s why women don’t want to date you. Have you ever thought about that?

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Why do men want to do base building irl

I love playing base building games as much as anybody. Most of the games I play is this genre. I’m always Rimworlding but when it comes to the real world? I would at most just watch some dude go out into the woods in freezing temperatures to start up some camp and grill food only to take it all down the next day to do the same thing in another location that looks about the same. For some reasons these dude just hang out alone drinking beer and grilling meat. Sometimes they have like a doggie. Then, they sleep in this uncomfortable tent.

I don’t get it! My bf decided to go camping and read House of Leaves out in the woods. I was like why? He said I wouldn’t get it because it’s a male experience to go Ted K once in a while and modern society drives men mad. Ok, fine! Now he’s out in the woods while I was enjoying a nice time in the bathtub. It’s immediately a dealbreaker to go camping because I ain’t squatting down to pee. God forbid go no 2. What am I? Some villager? Astaghfirullah! So, yes, I drew a bath and put in expensive bath salts. Because that’s how you relax! Not out in the woods with bugs!!

If he comes back without finishing House of Leaves, I’m never gonna let this go lol

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Having work husband or wife is cheating, innit?

A colleague I am close with has been Pamming and Jimming with this new guy who has no jawline. That’s embarrassing enough on its own but she’s married with kids.

Some degen on Reddit tried to gaslight me into thinking I’m just “jealous” of “the attention”. Bruh, if I wanted to be an attention whore, I’d go around sleeping with men on this site but I don’t need to sink to this level because I don’t have enough daddy issues to do so.

Is cute twink Ron the for Maga rightoids?

You can't be an ameriKKKan patriot and be anti-zionist

My boy, my oldest child, was so good when he was little, but something broke inside of him when he was a teenager.

my wife (male) and I always accepted, loved, and encouraged him. We pushed him to work hard and treat people with respect. I don’t know where exactly we failed him but as a father I feel responsible for the thing he’s turned into.

It started when he was 14. He had began to become withdrawn and emotional. We chalked it up to teenaged mood swings. For some reason he was just so angsty and bitter all the time. We were worried about his lack of social life and his over-reliance on his computer. He kind of hid himself in the online world so my wife (male) and I began to limit his computer time, but he simply became more aggressive and confrontational.

His hygiene was bad, and he was always confrontational when we told him to shower or do laundry. His room stank horribly and we eventually had a huge fight over it where he physically shoved my wife (male) and called her a bitch, and eventually we got him to at least clean and air out his room regularly on the grounds that it was our house and if he couldn’t maintain his space he wouldn’t be entitled to it - essentially we got to the point where we told him he wouldn’t be allowed his worldly possessions or privacy unless he took care of the space we all shared. the room still smelled and he was still rude about cleaning it but we could tell him to get it clean and he would do it after that.

We ended up getting a call from his school saying that a female student felt harassed by him. We were shown messages where he continually badgered her to have intercourse with him, threatened to “punish” her for stringing him along, sending her unsolicited nudes, telling her some violent fantasies of his, and eventually just descending into some horrid rage-filled rant about how she is just another “whore” and other things.

We were shocked. We mansplained to him why this behaviour was unacceptable, and I mansplained to him that it was ok to be sexually active but his actions were toxic and abusive.

I tried mentoring him man-to-man, taking him on camping trips and whatnot and talking to him about women and girls and trying to give him advice. I suggested he try showering, changing up his hair and facial hair styles, trying out different fashion styles, maybe going to the gym.

I told him some hard truths - that he doesn’t want a gross woman so he shouldn’t be a gross man. By gross I mean hygiene and looks. I mansplained to him that good looks are more hygiene and self care than genetics but he refused to accept what I said to him.

After that I caught him sniffing his sister’s panties in the laundry room - she was 12 at the time and he was 17. He assured me it had nothing to do with his sister, he said he just had a panty sniffing fetish and he pretended they belonged to girls from porno videos, but still I gave him heck for it, and he was grounded and lost his computer for 6 months. I went through his computer and I was disgusted by the kinds of hateful, racist, incel forums he frequented, the horrid things he said about women, and his save file was full of cartoon porn with girls of questionable ages. I wiped the hard drive completely and began strictly monitoring his online activity. I used parental filters to block incel sites and and porn sites that hosted cartoon porn.

The next big issue was something he did to my daughter’s friend. My daughter is 5 years his junior, and one day after a sleepover, my daughter came to me and said her friend wanted to tell me something but was afraid of what I would say.

My son cornered this 13 year old girl and physically blocked her path and touched her hair and face while making very inappropriate comments about her body and asking her if she liked to sleep naked and what kind of underwear she wore.

I tore into my son for that, my wife (male) and I both shouted at him, and told him his behaviour was horrible and I told him then that if his actions got him arrested I would not defend him. He accused us of not loving him, but I told him the reason I was so passionately angry in that situation is because I do love him, and I want to help him become a good man so he can stop being so predatory and bitter and miserable. I told him some hard truths. That he did this all to himself and that he is the only one he can blame for how bitter he is.

I suggested he look to women his own age and he went on a rant about how it was a waste of time because women were already whores (and his definition of a whore is a woman who has had intercourse even just once) by 17. I called him out on his bullshit and expressed clearly that if he harassed young girls anymore I would personally turn him in.

I invited my daughters friend over after and I personally apologized to her for her experiences, I cried in shame for my son’s behaviour and begged her forgiveness for allowing her to feel unsafe in my home and promised her that if she ever felt uncomfortable she could come to my wife (male) and I and we would always believe and help her. Luckily, my daughter didn’t lose this friend, but for safety I installed a lock on my daughter’s door.

We got my son therapy but he refused to engage with the therapist, calling him a “sand BIPOC” and “sexy Indian dude” and “terrorist”. His next therapist was a “chad”, so he didn’t relate to that either.

We fought about him not trying, not getting a job, and he said he couldn’t get one because of the immigrants, to which I pointed out that he was struggling because he got fired from his high school jobs for being lazy.

After those fights, my wife (male) tried to empathize with him and understand what made him so bitter but he flipped out at her, and called her a cock-gargling whore and said that she fricked her way through dozens of men until she found a “beta-strag” who was willing to shelter her for missionary sex.

my wife (male), who works and contributes to the family income, who is an independent, professional woman.

Honestly, I lost it more than ever before. I had never been so angry when I heard what he said. That may be his mom, he may be my son, but the woman he was abusively tearing into is my god darn wife. No one can treat my wife (male) like that.

I am ashamed to say in my anger, he shoved me and I physically retaliated, shoving him back, and pinning him against the wall. I felt ashamed of myself, I have never been an angry or violent person, but I couldn’t control myself. I’ve never put my hands on either of my children in such a way in my life, I hate child abusers... but this boy was no child. He was a grown man.

He was intimidated and backed down, and for a while he was peaceful.

The last straw was this week.

My daughter has dated 3 people her whole life. A boy, a girl, and now another boy. We were as open about intercourse with my daughter as we were with my son. We asked if she would like to have a question-free steady supply of condoms left in her bathroom drawer, and if she wanted to get on birth control. She said no to both questions with her first boyfriend. She never really brought him home but we met him at one of her recitals. When she had a girlfriend she went over to her house all the time, and didn’t want to bring her to the same house her brother lived in, a sentiment I understood.

But her most recent boyfriend has a lot going on behind the scenes in his family. He’s a nice boy but his mom is a single mom of 4 and they struggle.

This boy started coming around a month after they got together. I like him. My daughter is happy with him. He treats her with respect. He is an intelligent boy. He’s an absolute gentleman. He’s respectful and polite in our home. He calls me sir, calls my wife (male) Ma’am, he offers to help with the cooking or dishes or cleaning while he’s visiting, he talks to us, he’s a bit of an amateur cook himself and brings us food all the time to say thank you for taking care of him, when we go out for dinner he always offers to pay for himself and my daughter (though I know he doesn’t have much money so I always pay). When getting out of the car he opens the door for my wife (male) and offers her his hand (he sits behind her for leg room). He holds the doors, when we leave somewhere he helps my daughter put her jacket on like those sweet old fashioned couples.

This young man works hard, and gives what little he has to his mom and siblings. Like I said, I really respect the boy. I offered him money once for groceries for his family but he turns me down and says he would feel guilty accepting my money like that. He’s appreciative of things - in the winter, it was -20 and he had only a hoodie, so I draped my jacket over his arms, and I said “take it son, it’s cold.” He had tears in his eyes as he said thank you, and I made some excuse about wanting to get rid of the jacket and told him he could keep it if he brought cookies for us next time he visited.

When Christmas came along, I invited him over for supper, and when I went to pick him up I delivered some presents for his family, and on the ride back to my house we had a moment. He was crying because he didn’t have much to give us - he got everyone in our house a present but he cried anyways because he felt it wasn’t enough to make up for what we gave him. I pulled over, and I just hugged him, and I said to him that it wasn’t the value of what he got, it was that he got us anything at all. I thanked him for treating my daughter so well, and I told him he would always be welcome in my home.

My own son didn’t get us anything for christmas, not even a card bought with the money we give him. This boy got my wife (male) and I matching wine glasses since we like to share a bottle every now and then.

My son didn’t eat with us. He pillaged the food table and ran away to his room alone while my daughter’s boyfriend met my sister and her family and my parents and my uncle. They all told me how charming he was and how polite he was. Meanwhile after dinner my son told my 5 year old nephew “frick off cute twink” for asking to play a game with him. A man over 20 years old.

Last week, my wife (male) and I went out for an evening to ourselves. We went to dinner, then we went to an upscale bar to play some pool, then we went home.

When I walked in the door, the kids were screaming at each other. I came in to see my son and my daughter’s boyfriend fighting. The boyfriend was just pushing my son back and trying to redirect him, my son was throwing punches and charging him. My daughter was crying and sitting against the wall clutching her face. I got between them and pushed them apart, and demanded to know what was happening.

My son went on a tirade about how he found birth control pills and heard “whore” sounds from her room, so he kicked open her door and discovered them having sex, he said he couldn’t believe his own sister would “be a BIPOC’s whore” and called the poor boy a monkey and other things.

my wife (male) got my daughter and her boyfriend out of there and I yelled at my son for how he was acting. Eventually I got nowhere with him so I made him wait in his room. I went to talk to my daughter. I apologized to her boyfriend, crying as I did, telling him that I hope he could forgive me for letting this happen. He said he was sorry for getting violent but that he only did it because my son hit her. My daughter cried and said he was a psycho and threatened to r*pe her, and that he admitted to ejaculating on her toothbrush and hair brush.

I charged into his room, and I said firmly that he should pack his bags and leave. I told him I would pay to have his things sent to him, wherever he went, but that he was leaving tomorrow.

my wife (male) stayed at my sisters, and my daughter and her boyfriend spent the next few nights at his place.

The next day I practically threw my son out of the house kicking and screaming.

I took his key back and changed the alarm codes and garage door code. A day later I had a message requesting some of this things - mostly his gaming stuff - be delivered to some strange apartment block I didn’t recognize a couple of towns over. A college aged man buzzed me in and I delivered the stuff. I didn’t see my son.

my wife (male) and I then went through his room. My daughter’s boyfriend came over and helped me move his furniture to the garage. We threw out his mattress and some other more gross and smelly things, and we took out the carpet to be replaced.

Hidden in the closet was a treasure trove of my daughter’s underwear, so saturated with old, moldy semen that they were as hard as bricks. The unnerving part was that there were a few pairs my daughter was adamant didn’t belong to her. And they were too small for my wife (male). It was possible he stole them from my nieces.

There was a sketchbook containing graphic drawings of my son violently raping different women and keeping little girls chained up in some kind of intercourse dungeon. I went through his old phone that was still working, and all his photos were screenshots of my nieces and their friends in their bikinis, lots of cartoon porn, lots of red pill and incel and Trump memes. He still had messenger, so I checked his messages, most of them were just him trying to harass women and underaged girls.

I checked his Email and... much to my disgust, he stole private photos of my wife (male) from her phone, and he was selling them.

Today, I went to the police with everything and told them everything.

I gave my baby boy everything... I don’t know why he went down this road. But I’m just so sorry I failed him. I don’t know what the police will do... but I hope they stop him before he hurts someone else.

The sad thing is... yesterday, once it was all over and settled, yesterday we had a wonderful day. One of the happiest we have ever had.

Edit: there is a lot to sort through, it’s impossible to reply to everyone so let me hit the big points.

• all the incels this post attracted can frick off back to their holes.

• how do I know the lingo? From my son.

• “why didn’t I take his computer time away” I specifically said I did. His laptop was forbidden to be used in private, and I banned most of the sites he was using with the parental locks. He bought or stole another laptop behind our backs though and used his phone data. my wife (male) and I don’t use our phone internet much so we didn’t think of it.

• “it wasn’t Christmas last week” ??? I know? It’s.... November. The young man visited us on Christmas 2017. We had this fight last week. I don’t know how I have to clarify that there was a passage of time between the fight and Christmas, since it’s pretty clearly not Christmas right now, but.... alright.

• “why wasn’t he in therapy” again this is a common comment from people who must have skimmed because we did put him in therapy. He was abusive towards several therapists, so we gave up on therapy.

• “why not have him institutionalized” because that is MY SON. to have him locked away is not an easy decision. I love him. We wanted to believe he could still change. But he couldn’t.

• I have no idea who he moved in with. I don’t care. Maybe an Airbnb?

• “why didn’t you help him sooner/was he bad as a child” as a kid he was introverted but not especially bad. He misbehaved sometimes but it wasn’t troubling. He had a few friends but they all had a falling out the first year of grade school. Prior to harassing that first girl he had some red flags. He seemed depressed, and his hygiene was spiralling. We tried to help him but he was stubborn. He didn’t want help. He wanted to be miserable. I listened to his problems and he complained about how his dream girl went after some other guy and how he stole her from him, and I tried to guide him and help him understand she wasn’t stolen because she isn’t property, she’s a person who made her own choice. He didn’t like that answer.

• all the things you say we should have tried, we mostly did. We gave him lots of attention and love before all this and after. We still tried to be a family.

• my daughter and her boyfriend helped me clear his room since I cannot carry certain heavy things myself. My daughter was therefore present when I found her underwear. She singled out a couple of pairs as not hers and was scared of where he got them from. She suggested keeping them for evidence.

• there was a teacher who did get through to him somewhat, for a time. But he transferred to a different school district.

• he wasn’t horrible all the time. Sometimes he could be good to be around. He could be really funny and clever. He was really good with animals. He was good with his games too. He got really passionate and excited about them and it made me happy seeing him having fun with a hobby. Seeing him smile could almost make me forget the things he’d done.

• telling me to kill myself says a lot about yourself.

• I’ve seen what toxic ideologies do to families. I’m not interested in joining your red pill, Jordan Peterson, or child beating cults.

• advocating child abuse as a 20-something brat shows your immaturity. Advocating murder does too.

• toxic masculinity is considering men weak for having the strength to express their emotions.

• many complaints about “allowing” my daughter to be intimate with her boyfriend all stem from the same racist incel rhetoric my son used. There is literally nothing wrong with interracial couples. I couldn’t be happier that my daughter is with someone who loves and treats her with dignity.

• incels struggle with reading, evidently. My daughter had her first boyfriend at 15, and I doubt there was anything going on between them. She is currently 18. So yes, she probably has sex. As an adult woman. Not really anyone’s business. My son is 22, soon to be 23.

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With new replies coming in by the truckload and 3 new pm’s for every one I reply to, I am getting slightly overwhelmed by the response here. I can’t really keep up, even just reading I have begun skipping comments to keep up. I have things to do today but I’ll try to catch up every so often.

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Mods locked the thread. I am not sure why but there are almost 10,000 replies and maybe 500 pm’s to sort through.

Hello bro it's 100�ke cuz we all know manipuri no need to chat with english #another hidden agenda🥲

Even their god Sanamahi will not accept them after committing so many crime n violence...

Nah killing immigrants is good and holy

What do you get by spreading all lies and false information? Or is this the only thing you know other than poppy plantation? Shameless poppy planters.

It is so refreshing watching chinx have phones to shitpost at each other with while other chinx go head hunting on the ground. Truly sabka saath sabka vikaas.

First they pushed for Majority Hindu vs Minority Cristian narrative, now this spokesperson is claiming Meitei started it. Victim card never ends. Shame

Now this is the line they should go for Everyone hates whiny cute twinks.

Let's debunked Kukis selective patriotism also.

They claim they are a lost tribe of Israel

These are the people Israel's importing

Well tbf I think NE troops are fairly bloodthirsty and effective in the Indian army so maybe they have a point

Meitei are Sanatan. Nor merely the Hindu as you all know

Indian dramanaut tries to make it about politics and gets downvoted.

Chud wonders why the body count is too small considering

Redditor dunks on Indians by comparing them with China

288 dead and 900 injured at the site of a train collision in the state of Odisha, India. This was the deadliest rail disaster in India since 1995 and the 4th deadliest in the world.

On 2 June 2023, at around 13:30 UTC, two passenger trains collided with each other right before a freight train also crashed into the site.

How do we feel about procreation? passing our genes and raising kids? : aspergers

I hope people don't take this the wrong, after all this is forum for ASD-people, so, here goes.

I thought for a long time that something is "wrong" with me. For transparancy, I'm F28, only diagnosed late last year. No kids.

Most people my age have kids. Others expect me any my partner to have kids soon/years ago. (been together 10 years).

I felt that since our genes are probably fricked, we shouldn't, "wouldn't be fair".
I also struggled a lot, at least before diagnosed. (oh, also the "deadly dual"; ASD aaand ADHD ).

I have wanted kids since I was young, but I also have respect for the task; it's not easy, involves sleep deprivations, unpredictability, lack of boundaries (kids don't have it - being all up in your business, and how others seem to forget boundaries when it comes to kids), a huge increase in social interaction and less choice in the matter, higher demands sensory and routine wise, etc etc, the list goes on.

Point; I felt my genetics and my skill sets socially is so far below average that it wouldn't be "fair" to bring kids into this world (this; like, our house, our social circle, etc.)
(I literally got zero friends, I only talk to some of my sisters and my partner, and I'll pick up the phone if mom or dad calls, but it's.. we're not close)

However, the last few years, I have noticed, and I'm not trying to be d1ckhead, but.. lots of these people having kids.. are .. morons? idiots? like... If _they_ can... then why can't I ?
I want kids. Why should I not have what I want, if all these other .. morons .. are having it?
I'm chosing to _not_ have kids, because of [reasons]; as if that would be bad, like for the kids.. ?
I know it isn't a competition and not easily "quantifiable" but I'm sure I'd still be a much better parent than a lot of the doofuses that have procreated latest years.

I'm tired of seeing high school bimbos and other various people making idiotic choices after idiotic choices - to also go on to have kids and keep making wild choices.
While I'm sitting here without kids thinking "it'd be for the best"

Now I can't say I won't make mistakes, but like, seeing how others are doing this "parenting" gig, I'm sure I'd get through it with "less".. "errors" than most of them.
After all, I'm now feeling more like I'm just cheating myself out of it, for no good reason.

(Sure, it will be hard, but, spending the rest of my life being sad that I didn't have kids because I was scared of doing a bad job? That doesn't sound better.
I mean, I'm not going to have many right away, like, twins is rare, you start of by 1 and if it goes directly to heck I have a sister, family, and last option; there is CPS, like, I'm not a complete idiot, I wouldn't harm the kid, the "worst" to happen is I might forget to make dinner or go to bed on time, and some social cues with school can be hard, but their to-be baby daddy is socially skilled so it'd work out??)

This was a hella long post, longer than I thought, and I'm sure I looped a little bit too, sorry for the repetitive parts, I'm just "airing" my thoughts as I have a pending conversation with my partner on this subject this week, and I'm talking to my sister tonight, about this specific topic, so I'm just looking for insights, thoughts, how others have thought about this, as I'm about to change my mind from a "no, I can't - because I'm not good enough - sadface" to "yes, i want to, let's do it"

My sister got me a ticket so we could have a girls trip lmbo

!pnw I’m not a super fan of hers but it’ll be a fun time.